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Dr refuses to treat unmarried couple.

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 677 ✭✭✭Feeky Magee


    Hopefully soon he will be ex-Dr. Phil Boyle.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 68,317 ✭✭✭✭seamus


    He should be crucified under the equal status act (no pun). Your personal morality has no bearing on what treatment you provide to your patients.

    If you don't like that, don't be a doctor. It's a scientific discipline, not an art, you don't get do what you want based on your emotions.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,549 ✭✭✭Noffles


    **** like this just doesn't surprise me anymore... ten years ago maybe when in the UK I would of been shocked... but now, in Ireland, nope...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 131 ✭✭Benincasa


    This doctor is dead right.

    Liberalism means tolerating and respecting people, even when you happen to disagree with them.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 68,317 ✭✭✭✭seamus


    Benincasa wrote: »
    This doctor is dead right.

    Liberalism means tolerating and respecting people, even when you happen to disagree with them.
    Your two statements are at odd with eachother, is there a typo here. Where was the respect and tolerance shown by the doctor for these two people who engaged his services as a medical health professional, and not as a religious guidance counsellor?

    Unfortunately this guy was acquitted on a technicality:
    http://www.breakingnews.ie/archives/2010/0414/ireland/doctor-in-fertility-row-acquitted-453905.html

    :rolleyes:
    With any luck, his reputation is mud now and his patients are going elsewhere.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,214 ✭✭✭cbyrd


    Benincasa wrote: »
    This doctor is dead right.

    Liberalism means tolerating and respecting people, even when you happen to disagree with them.

    regardless of the doctors personal views he does not have the right to sit in judgement on anyones marital status... being married does not automatically make you a good parent. or a better one


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 223 ✭✭NewDirection


    seamus wrote: »
    If you don't like that, don't be a doctor. It's a scientific discipline, not an art, you don't get do what you want based on your emotions.
    Of course he should have a say as to who he can treat. Do you think everyone who applies for this treatment should be accepted.

    I can sure think of a few situations where I wouldn't give people fertility treatment. For example, if it seems like the parents could not support the child well enough, I would not give them the treatment.

    For the record not being married would not be one of them, to me.


  • Moderators, Arts Moderators Posts: 17,231 Mod ✭✭✭✭Das Kitty


    seamus wrote: »
    With any luck, his reputation is mud now and his patients are going elsewhere.

    AFAIK it's only available in Galway in Ireland that particular technology.

    There's more here:
    http://www.fertilitycare.ie/

    Links at the bottom of the page.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 131 ✭✭Benincasa


    seamus wrote: »
    Your two statements are at odd with eachother, is there a typo here. Where was the respect and tolerance shown by the doctor for these two people who engaged his services as a medical health professional, and not as a religious guidance counsellor?

    Unfortunately this guy was acquitted on a technicality:
    http://www.breakingnews.ie/archives/2010/0414/ireland/doctor-in-fertility-row-acquitted-453905.html

    :rolleyes:
    With any luck, his reputation is mud now and his patients are going elsewhere.

    No, there's no contradiction.

    This doctor hasn't sought to prevent unmarried people from accessing fertility treatments. He has just refused to provide the treatment himself, in line with his conscience. It seems others, however, wish to force their morality on him.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 68,317 ✭✭✭✭seamus


    Of course he should have a say as to who he can treat. Do you think everyone who applies for this treatment should be accepted.
    Of course not. But he should only be entitled to refuse treatment on a legal basis or where the treatment would be in breach of his duty as a doctor - i.e. where the mother's life would be jeopardised.

    If he refuses treatment to someone who otherwise can afford it and has no legal reason why they cannot get it, then he should be stripped of his licence to practice.
    Benincasa wrote: »
    This doctor hasn't sought to prevent unmarried people from accessing fertility treatments. He has just refused to do this, in line with his conscience. It seems others, however, wish to force their morality on him.
    As above. If he offers a treatment which is incompatible with his beliefs, then he should ignore his beliefs or stop providing the treatment.

    The welfare of his patients takes utmost priority. His personal morality comes second.

    Should a Jehovah's Witness doctor be permitted to refuse to do a blood transfusion on a patient because it contravenes his personal morality?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,921 ✭✭✭silja


    For me it would depend; if he has his own practise or works at a private clinic, then yes, he should be able to choose who to treat and not have to compromise his own ethics (whether I agree with those ethics or not is irrelevant). But if he works at a public hospital or receives money from the state for his services, then he should treat everyone. The same goes for Muslim doctors not wanting to treat patients of the opposite sex or similar.


  • Moderators, Education Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 18,986 Mod ✭✭✭✭Moonbeam


    Ireland does not give unmarried and married parents the same status or the same rights to adopt so I dunno if the equal status act can apply.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 223 ✭✭NewDirection


    seamus wrote: »
    Of course not. But he should only be entitled to refuse treatment on a legal basis or where the treatment would be in breach of his duty as a doctor - i.e. where the mother's life would be jeopardised.

    If he refuses treatment to someone who otherwise can afford it and has no legal reason why they cannot get it, then he should be stripped of his licence to practice.
    As above. If he offers a treatment which is incompatible with his beliefs, then he should ignore his beliefs or stop providing the treatment.

    The welfare of his patients takes utmost priority. His personal morality comes second.

    Should a Jehovah's Witness doctor be permitted to refuse to do a blood transfusion on a patient because it contravenes his personal morality?
    Why can he not refuse them? Its an elective treatment. He's not endangering the mother by not treating her.
    Why is this all about the mother too? Will someone please think of the children!!

    Your Jehovah's Witness scenario is completely different. I'm not even going to indulge you on that point its so ridiculous.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 68,317 ✭✭✭✭seamus


    Moonbeam wrote: »
    Ireland does not give unmarried and married parents the same status or the same rights to adopt so I dunno if the equal status act can apply.
    The equal status act states that it is illegal to discriminate against a person on the basis of their family status.

    This basically means that it is illegal for someone who supplies goods or services on a commercial basis to discriminate against someone on the basis that they're single/married/divorced/widowed/childless/etc.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 68,317 ✭✭✭✭seamus


    Why can he not refuse them? Its an elective treatment. He's not endangering the mother by not treating her.
    Why is this all about the mother too? Will someone please think of the children!!
    What about the children? The doctor isn't a clairvoyant. He's not endangering the mother by refusing treatment, but he's giving their welfare (emotional/social/whatever) second fiddle to his own personal beliefs.
    Your Jehovah's Witness scenario is completely different. I'm not even going to indulge you on that point its so ridiculous.
    It's not really. It's one of a long list of situations where religious morality is at odds with medical science, I use it purely because it's the best known.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    Unfortunately Drs here have been allowed to not deal with certain patients or contraceptives due to their religious beliefs.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 223 ✭✭NewDirection


    seamus wrote: »
    What about the children? The doctor isn't a clairvoyant. He's not endangering the mother by refusing treatment, but he's giving their welfare (emotional/social/whatever) second fiddle to his own personal beliefs.
    I believe the Doctor should be allowed to refuse fertility treatment if he deems the family situation is not fit for a child to be brought up in.
    seamus wrote: »
    It's not really. It's one of a long list of situations where religious morality is at odds with medical science, I use it purely because it's the best known.
    It's different, as refusing the treatment would endanger the patient. It is very different.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,797 ✭✭✭✭hatrickpatrick


    The main issue I see with this is, if someone will discriminate on these grounds what's next? Refusing to treat a gay person with a lethal STD for example, or refusing to provide medical care for a pregnant teenager?

    Personal morality and healthcare don't mix. And they shouldn't.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 223 ✭✭NewDirection


    Handing out elective treatments without evaluating the patients situation first can be just as dangerous.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 68,317 ✭✭✭✭seamus


    I believe the Doctor should be allowed to refuse fertility treatment if he deems the family situation is not fit for a child to be brought up in.
    Since when did an MD automatically qualify you as a social worker too?
    If the doctor is concerned, he can ask someone suitably qualified to take a look, but he himself has no qualifications or basis on which to refuse the treatment.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 223 ✭✭NewDirection


    seamus wrote: »
    Since when did an MD automatically qualify you as a social worker too?
    If the doctor is concerned, he can ask someone suitably qualified to take a look, but he himself has no qualifications or basis on which to refuse the treatment.
    It is part of the job.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 131 ✭✭Benincasa


    seamus wrote: »

    Should a Jehovah's Witness doctor be permitted to refuse to do a blood transfusion on a patient because it contravenes his personal morality?

    BIG difference.

    A blood transfusion is a matter of life and death.

    Fertility treatment is a purely elective treatment.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 131 ✭✭Benincasa


    It seems to me that this doctor is concerned with the welfare of the children produced by fertility treatment. I presume that his assessment is that children of married people generally haver better outcomes. There is certainly plenty of research to support this.

    Note: I am not saying that there aren't plenty of awful married parents and that there aren't plenty of brilliant single or cohabiting parents. There are plenty of both. However, in general, children do best when in MARRIED families.

    It seems that those who want to hound him out of business are more concerned with the adults than with the children.

    I would have thought that the child abuse scandals would have helped us to have a more child-focussed, rather than adult-focussed, approach on many of these sensitive issues.

    The idea of being child centered is very relevant here. Who is most important in fertility treatment - the adults or the child? If we are so concerned with children's rights then there are implications that flow from this. A blunt application of the notion of equality does nothing to vindicate or recognise the rights of the child that will be conceived from fertility treatment. Equality is all about the adults and their satisfaction.

    (NOTE: Before people try to distort my words, let me be clear. I am NOT equating unmarried/single people having children to child abuse. There is no moral equivalance here at all. Nor am I saying that unmarried/single parents are necessarily more likely to be abused. Nor am I trying to justify child abuse, clerical or otherwise. Nor am I trying to justify covering up abuse. I hope I have pre-emptively prevented people from distorting my words.)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 869 ✭✭✭Osgoodisgood


    Benincasa wrote: »
    It seems to me that this doctor is concerned with the welfare of the children produced by fertility treatment.

    Cobblers. This doctor is concerned with his own version of morality that he gleaned from reading a dusty and scary old book.
    I presume that his assessment is that children of married people generally haver better outcomes. There is certainly plenty of research to support this.

    There is? I'd love to see it. Every statistic and survey I've ever seen illustrates absolutely no connection between marital status and "better outcomes"
    It seems that those who want to hound him out of business are more concerned with the adults than with the children.

    Who wants him out of business? People are rightly concerned with equal access to healthcare, particularly when that healthcare is in any way state funded.
    I would have thought that the child abuse scandals would have helped us to have a more child-focussed, rather than adult-focussed, approach on many of these sensitive issues.

    The idea of being child centered is very relevant here. Who is most important in fertility treatment - the adults or the child? If we are so concerned with children's rights then there are implications that flow from this. A blunt application of the notion of equality does nothing to vindicate or recognise the rights of the child that will be conceived from fertility treatment. Equality is all about the adults and their satisfaction.

    Neat obfuscation. But not relevant to the issue.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 131 ✭✭Benincasa





    There is? I'd love to see it. Every statistic and survey I've ever seen illustrates absolutely no connection between marital status and "better outcomes"


    .


    There is an abundance of evidence supporting married families as the best setting for raising children. It may not be politically correct, some may find it offensive, some may feel that the very idea of comparing family forms is in some way judgemental.

    But it doesn't matter if people find it offensive. Refusing to face the scientific evidence is a form of irrational dogmatism. If we are really concerned about the rights of children, and let's not forget, it is the rights of children that are of highest importance in this debate, then we have to face the evidence even if it makes us uncomfortable, even if it contradicts our own limited anecdotal experience and even if it challenges the way we live our lives ourselves.

    So, for starters, you can check out the Child Trends Institute. This is an independent research institute that seeks to research the conditions that lead to better outcomes for children.

    You can read a summary of their report on this issue here:
    http://www.childtrends.org/files/MarriageRB602.pdf

    As part of this review, they conclude:
    Research clearly demonstrates that family structure matters for children, and the family structure that helps the most is a family headed by two biological parents in a low-conflict marriage"

    You may also refer to the Institute for Marriage and Public Policy and access a report from them here:
    http://www.marriagedebate.com/pdf/MothersFathersMatter.pdf

    Their review of the evidence states that:
    Marriage is an important social good associated with an impressively broad array of positive outcomes for children and adults alike”,

    and they concluded that having married paretns lessesn the likelihood of a range of unpleasent outcomes.

    You may also refer to the recent report of the Brookings Institution, a left leaning think tank with ties to the Democratic Party.
    http://www.brookings.edu/press/Books/2009/creatinganopportunitysociety.aspx

    Their conclusion:
    There is a growing consensus that having two married parents is the best environment for children. Marriage brings not only clear economic benefits but social benefits as well, enabling children to grow up to be more successful than they might otherwise be ... To those who argue that this goal [promoting marriage] is old-fashioned or inconsistent with modern culture, we argue that modern culture is inconsistent with the needs of children.”

    If you require more evidence I will be happy to supply it.

    My aim here is not to offend or judge or criticise people in other family forms. Genuinely, I wish them the best, and I hope that all goes well with them and their children.

    But we have to face the facts - children matter and fertility treatment isn't just about the adults.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 131 ✭✭Benincasa





    Who wants him out of business? People are rightly concerned with equal access to healthcare, particularly when that healthcare is in any way state funded.



    I'm not aware that there is any State funding involved in this. It is a private medical clinic.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,243 ✭✭✭kelle


    If he refuses to treat patients who are unmarried because he has strong Catholic beliefs, then surely he shouldn't be carrying out IVF in the first place, because the Catholic church teaches that it is morally unacceptable!


  • Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 25,948 Mod ✭✭✭✭Neyite


    kelle wrote: »
    If he refuses to treat patients who are unmarried because he has strong Catholic beliefs, then surely he shouldn't be carrying out IVF in the first place, because the Catholic church teaches that it is morally unacceptable!

    the type of fertility treatment is not IVF, it is a method that is approved by the Catholic Church.

    there are many instances that medical professionals can opt out of providing procedures contradictory to their faith - 2 examples in the UK:

    nurses have been able to opt out of assisting on terminations due to their faith,
    the rules on short sleeves scrubs only have been modified to permit muslims wear long sleeves to protect modesty (disposable sleeves are available as a result of MRSA transfer on long sleeves)

    i dont see a problem if he declined to treat due to his beliefs (which i dont agree with btw) they should just go to another doc for the procedure.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 697 ✭✭✭chocgirl


    I don't think it's necessarily just a religious issue. I don't know the exact ins and outs of the case but a lot of people would feel that ideally children should be raised by married couples. I'm not in any way religious and I would feel the same simply because the children of married couples fare better in life statistically.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 429 ✭✭Jinxi


    Beliving in equailty means beleiving in ones right to practice their religious beleifs.
    Wheter you agree with the doctors sentiments or not, he has a right to practice his beleifs as long as they do not put his patients lives in danger.

    He is not the only doctor in Galway offering fertility treatments. The perspective clients should have just chosen another doctor.

    I have a problem with peoples livlihoods being damaged by friviolus lawsuits that media jump on because it sells papers.

    I would personally NOT pick that doctor because his beleifs are opposed to my own(and because I am a single person who would use fertility treatments if I needed them), just as I wouldn't choose a mechanic for my car if they hadn't a good reputation. I wouldn't take him to court if he refused to fix my car because he didn't deal with "chevrolets".

    When did Irish people start acting in the litigious ways that make me take the p*ss out of the USA. Use a bit of common sense.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20 mmr


    I really hope that this comes to nothing. I am being treated by Dr Boyle for a serious immune disorder. He is the only Dr in the country currently providing this treatment, it will be years before others in the medical profession start using low dose naltroxen. I am not married. I am living with my partner, he has stopped my disease and its progression and he is saving my life. He has never made any comment about my situation and is a compassionate and caring Dr.

    He has a right to his freedom of conscience, and I hope the law upholds it. I realise that this has been unpleasant for the couple involved, but none of us have any right to go through life not being offended. This couple was not discriminated against. Its very clear on all of his literature for fertility treatment, and on his web-site; that he only deals with married couples. I have been seeing him for 6 years as a patient and it has always been this way. I am not receiving fertility treatment. There no stipulation as to whether the couple have being married in a church, a registery office, a hind binding ceremony or married before. They just need to be legally married. He believes its best for the child if parents are married as they have greater protection under the law and qualitatively as they go up. But that's a wider societal debate, and not one that can be decided by the courts based on an individual complaint. There are a many many doctors providing successful fertility treatments,they can go to any number of these. I find it odd, given the experience of friends and family who have been TTC, that this couple would waste so much time, money and energy going after Dr Boyle if all they want is to have a child together ? I do question their motives ? There is only one Dr that I can go to. The real question is, does their right "not to be offended " negate another's freedom of conscience; and is it greater then my right to live a pain free life, assuming i should no longer be able to receive treatment from Dr Boyle because he can no longer practise.?

    I really hope it isn't. Its a brave new World.

    What have the thought police got to say about my situation ?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,653 ✭✭✭✭amdublin


    seamus wrote: »
    He should be crucified under the equal status act (no pun). Your personal morality has no bearing on what treatment you provide to your patients.

    If you don't like that, don't be a doctor. It's a scientific discipline, not an art, you don't get do what you want based on your emotions.

    While I personally disagree with his opinions, I still feel that he is entitled to decide who he treats or not based on his own morals/beliefs.

    Afterall there are plenty of doctors who choose not to carry out abortions as it is against their beliefs. They don't stop the person from having one, generally will refer them elsewhere.

    Same too with contraception.


  • Moderators, Arts Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators Posts: 10,885 Mod ✭✭✭✭Hellrazer


    Just read through this thread and felt that I had to reply.

    Dr Phil Boyle is the doctor responsible for us having our youngest two aswell as countless other people who have failed to have children through IVF etc like we did.

    After 8 years of trying HE got us there twice in the space of 3 years.

    The man is a genius when it comes to fertility treatment and whether you agree with his principles or not hes treated hundreds maybe thousands of couples.

    Now with regards to the treatment--He does let it be known that hes strongly catholic but you dont have to go along with the whole catholic agenda when you are receiving treatment from him. We wernt even asked if we were married when we started treatment.


  • Moderators, Arts Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators Posts: 10,885 Mod ✭✭✭✭Hellrazer


    kelle wrote: »
    If he refuses to treat patients who are unmarried because he has strong Catholic beliefs, then surely he shouldn't be carrying out IVF in the first place, because the Catholic church teaches that it is morally unacceptable!

    Its not IVF--Its based on tracking the womans cycle.Not just in the "buy an ovulation kit" way but tracking it right down to the best day to concieve.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    He's the vag snot dr, as someone I know who has seen him calls him affectionatly.


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  • Moderators, Arts Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators Posts: 10,885 Mod ✭✭✭✭Hellrazer


    Thaedydal wrote: »
    He's the vag snot dr, as someone I know who has seen him calls him affectionatly.


    Brilliant ^^^^^


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 758 ✭✭✭bubbaloo


    Dr Boyle is quite literally a miracle worker. He has helped people that noone else has been able to treat. If it was not for Dr Boyle my little boy would not be here.

    Dr Boyle has to take a moral responsibility for any child he assists in coming into this world. In order to do this he only has statistics to go on.
    Statistics show that children from a married couple live a more stable life and this is what he tries to ensure for any child conceived by napro.

    I fail to understand why people can't see this. It is not as simple as a religious belief. It is a life decision. He is not preventing them from having treatment anywhere else!


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