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Trouble finding love

  • 14-04-2010 10:56pm
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    LegacyUser
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    OK Im a 21 year old male and will be entering my final year of my college course next september and I have never been in a relationship. This was down to me being happy with myself and didnt see the point of having a g/friend – also a waste of money on txts and presents I was happy being by myself watching tv etc. I am still a virgin as I didnt see the point of drunken 1 night stands – not really into clubs etc and too lazy (lets face it the internet is way easier, if you know what I mean).

    So the problem! Well the thought of living/dying alone or never getting married doesnt bother me and I believed that you will find love when your not looking for it but thats a load of cr*p (the perfect woman is not going to find you when your lying on your couch watching south park!). So recently I got thinking that after next year ill start to lose contact with my friends and being realistic if I am ever going to meet someone with possible long term potential finding her in college is my best bet.

    I have started going to clubs more and more with friends (who think I have a ‘healthy sex life’- going home early and telling them the nextday that I left with some chick). Now the problem is that so little experience I dont know how to start approaching women without looking like I want to get into their pants. I also cant see how I can meet someone who has ‘long-term potential’ in a club or bar.

    So any advice comments etc will be greatly appreciated and I was also wondering if I was the only person in this situation (dont really care, just out of curiosity) Im also guessing there are girls in similiar situations so feel free to post any advice for them.
    Thanks, sorry its so long

    In short: guy trying to find potential long term girlfriend and has no idea what hes doing or where to start. Any advice.
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