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Letting go of someone I don't want to lose...

  • 13-04-2010 11:14pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    I'm currently in a friendship with someone whom I was seeing for about a year. It was a casual thing, nothing serious though I wanted it to be more. We've since stopped sleeping together but I still have feelings. The relationship has turned a bit bitter in recent times and it's gotten to the point where I think if we went our separate ways completely both of us would probably be better off. We have mutual friends but this is the way things go I suppose.

    The problem is - and i don't think it's solely on my part - I don't think I want to live without this person in my life. When we get on we get on better than any couple I know of (which is the part that kills me because I know that if there were mutual feelings we'd be perfect for each other) and we more often than not get on fine. My issue is that he tends to go through phases where they seem to be trying to brush me out of his life. I dunno what springs these moments on but I'm starting to wonder would I be better off just cutting him loose and having more stability despite wanting to stay friends?


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  • #2
    AnonoBoy
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    Its Hard wrote: »
    I dunno what springs these moments on but I'm starting to wonder would I be better off just cutting him loose and having more stability despite wanting to stay friends?

    Sorry to say this but yes you probably would be better off.

    People who blow hot and cold like that are usually too selfish or scared to just come out and say what they're thinking.


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