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Im so stupid

  • 13-04-2010 7:37pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Last week i did something really stupid and im really ashamed about it. I got really drunk in a pub and started arguing with the barman. I was so mad i actually threw my drink at him.
    I not a violent person and im so embassed and i dont know what to do its really killing me thinking of how stupid i am. I just cry the whole time and i just think people are talking about me.
    Im really scared i will get charged or something and i could end up loosing my job. I just hate myself right now.


Comments

  • #2
    omahaid
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,497 ✭✭✭omahaid


    Did you throw the drink or the glass? If its the drink you maybe ok...


  • #3
    sam34
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,073 ✭✭✭sam34


    go back to teh barman and apologise, explain how out of character it was and that you are mortified


  • #4
    JonathanAnon
    Closed Accounts Posts: 23,718 ✭✭✭✭JonathanAnon


    I was just about to post what sam34 said.. He's hardly likely to take case against you for firing a glass at him, but it is the right thing to do anyway. And you need to find out what you were drinking/taking and stop indulging, as this could easily happen again.

    You were lucky this time, but he could have legitimately given you a serious hiding over this, by either the barman or the security staff.


  • #5
    Katgurl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,145 ✭✭✭Katgurl


    Sadbear you are right to regrt what you did because out of control behaviour causes nothing but distress.

    But learn from it and move on.

    Firstly, remember this feeling as a caution about drinking so much.

    Secondly, apologise. If you think it's appropriate drop by pub in afternoon and speak to barman. Alternatively you could phone or send in short note saying you wanted to apologise, you had far too much to drink and regret your behaviour.

    Finally, forgive yourself. People have done far worse. Promise yourself it's an isolated incident and move on.

    Big hug and hope you feel better soon.


  • #6
    Bobbins
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 106 ✭✭Bobbins


    I agree. face up to it. call in and apologise. He'll feel better and so will you. Bite the bullet & good luck.

    P.s. I wouldn't worry about other ppl talking about you. we've all done something we regret after a drink or two....it's not being stupid, it's called being human...just don't make a habit of it !!:rolleyes:


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  • #7
    JonathanAnon
    Closed Accounts Posts: 23,718 ✭✭✭✭JonathanAnon


    Katgurl wrote: »
    Secondly, apologise. If you think it's appropriate drop by pub in afternoon and speak to barman. Alternatively you could phone or send in short note saying you wanted to apologise, you had far too much to drink and regret your behaviour.

    I think it would be better to drop in during the day, dont buy anything, just apologise and leave. I think that if you buy a drink while you're there or say it to him the next time you are out socializing it will just seem like something incidental, and not something that you are actually sincerely sorry for.

    Why exactly did you throw the glass at him. Something must have made you angry?


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