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How to fall out of love

  • 12-04-2010 2:49pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi all, ill try keep this short.

    So ive been with the GF for under a year but we've been friends for nearly 3, there was always something between us. For the first while things were great but now we constantly fight all the time!

    Ive been with a few girls in the past, even for long term but have never fought like this. it gets us both down but she is exceptionally stubborn so after a fight i will be ready to move on but she acts like a b1tch for another 2 days which drags the argument on!

    She's also very selfish, inconsiderate and has done some things that would come quite close to being deal breakers. She does some things that i really hate and ive kindly asked her to stop as it really gets me down and she just wont stop! on the other hand everything shes asked me to stop doing i have as compromise is important!

    We've tried everything at this stage, i know i would be better off out of the relationship but the problem is that when our relationship is good, its the best thing in the world. There is something between us thats very unusual and rare and its doubtful i would ever find it in another girl again (and remember ive been in my share of relationships and im mid 20's, shes early 20s).

    Id like to know how to get out of it? I cant just do it becuase it doesnt feel right to do it, im in love with her and would not like to be without her even though she is definitely bad for me! What i want is to actually feel like i want to be without her and i want to deep down feel like i dont want to be with her anymore!

    Its probably not possible but i thought id put this out there. Thanks for reading!


Comments

  • #2
    Ickle Magoo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    Write a list of all the reasons the relationship is toxic, end things and whenever you feel tempted to re-ignite things, re-read the list.

    I had to end a relationship that could have gone on indefinitely because I knew deep down it was a really unhealthy relationship to be in and that the odds were there was someone else out there that I was equally attracted to without all the negative baggage...there was & I'm sooooooo glad I dumped him now.

    Best of luck. :)


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