It does not matter

merlie

When someone says, 'it doesn't matter,' does it usually mean it DOES matter?

MaybeLogic

When I say it, it means 'It doesn't matter'.
I can't speak for anyone else, though.

Dravokivich

D'pends.... did you make them cry?

Kiera

MaybeLogic wrote: »

When I say it means 'It doesn't matter'.
I can't speak for anyone else, though.

Yeah I'm the same. I say what I mean.

antodeco

Ah, it doesnt matter though, does it?

MoodeRator

Kiera wrote: »

Yeah I'm the same. I say what I mean.

Nice to hear that Kiera! Most times to me, it appears that guys use the expression genuinely, whereas any time a female has said to me,I certainly hear it as a threat!

Wazdakka

Woooo Opposite Day.....

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Sykk

This thread doesn't matter. In the real sense of it's term.

Edit: Yeah come to think of it, that's usually the case.

tipperaryboy

I suppose it can depend on the subject matter,hard to tell really.

dylano_k

This guy seems to mean it...

Kiera

MoodeRator wrote: »

Nice to hear that Kiera! Most times to me, it appears that guys use the expression genuinely, whereas any time a female has said to me,I certainly hear it as a threat!

Yeah I wouldnt be classed as "normal"

I'm not one of those "nothing" gals!

dylano_k

MoodeRator wrote: »

Nice to hear that Kiera! Most times to me, it appears that guys use the expression genuinely, whereas any time a female has said to me,I certainly hear it as a threat!

It's worse when a female replies with "Nothing"....cos then you have to figure the whole thing out yourself...

ah nuts

Kiera

dylano_k wrote: »

It's worse when a female replies with "Nothing"....cos then you have to figure the whole thing out yourself...

You do know men also play the "nothing" game too, right?

Darksaga87

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XnKxo1JAzVQ

It doesnt matter!!!

biko

And it don't matter and I don't care
I let my pain into the air
Cuz everything good's over there
And everything here's hard to bear
And it don't matter and I don't care
I let my pain into the air
Cuz everything good's over there
And everything here's hard to bear

Woop wooop

dylano_k

Kiera wrote: »

You do know men also play the "nothing" game too, right?

Woman: What did you get me for my birthday

Man: Nothing

Thats a game i never win

Bonito

It doesn't not matter.

Gillington

It doesn't matter means you're fooked!

orourkeda

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X9Q6chYwai8

Naos

merlie wrote: »

When someone says, 'it doesn't matter,' does it usually mean it DOES matter?

This should really be in PI...

OP: You've done something to her and it most definitly does matter.

It's going to be difficult, you need to know what you've done or what she wants but the problem is you should already know what you've done or what she wants.

Enjoy :pac:

pickarooney

"You wouldn't let it lie!"

banquo

Depends on the gender.

MoodeRator

Kiera wrote: »

Yeah I wouldnt be classed as "normal"

I'm not one of those "nothing" gals!

Why can t everyone be like this? Can't stand meeting someone, only to find out hour later, that they have been playing mind games or talking $hite ALL nite!!!!:mad:

Kiera

MoodeRator wrote: »

Why can t everyone be like this? Can't stand meeting someone, only to find out hour later, that they have been playing mind games or talking $hite ALL nite!!!!:mad:

Ah its only cause i'm an aul wan

Noreen1

banquo wrote: »

Depends on the gender.

It depends on the tone..... and on the person.

If I say "It doesn't matter", I mean it. The only exception is if someone genuinely feels bad about something they should have done, and I feel sorry for them.

Generally, if it's a female, and the tone of voice is soft, eyes downcast; She's hurt, or saddened.

A male on the other hand, will generally raise his voice slightly, which usually means he's angry......and he might be angry because his feelings are hurt, but not necessarily.

Men can be every bit as confusing as women.......:D:D

Noreen

Davidius

Well I suppose people do use it correctly enough. Usually when it's said people either mean "It doesn't matter" or "It matters to me but nevermind". The latter is another way of saying the former, so really it never matters.

MoodeRator

Kiera wrote: »

Ah its only cause i'm an aul wan

ah, is it down to age? Great then there IS something I can beat you at! :P

twinQuins

Obligatory:

"When a woman says nothing's wrong that means everything's wrong and when a woman says everything's wrong that means EVERYTHING'S wrong. And when a woman says something isn't funny you better not laugh your ass off!"