'weird' internet date

scarymoon1

i met a guy that never met anyone from the net before, the date was an experiece!!!. First of all he nearly backed out then didnt, he said to me he thought only weirdos went on internet dates!!!! I was offended to say the least. He then said he didnt think that anymore after meeting me. He said his friends thought it hilarious he was going on an internet date.Then we saw a group of guys in a car and he said they are laughing at us!! i thought wtf!!! he said he thought it was his brother! it wasnt. At the end he kissed me and wanted to see me again.I went home and he wanted to meet again in a few mins, then a few mins later hes gone to bed. is he as odd as a bag of cats or was it nerves??? i text him couple days ago asking was he ok etc after his first net date, no reply!!! he is awful busy at work at the min. im wondering is he odd!!!

LegacyUser

He may have been nervous. But irrespective of the fact that you met him on the net, you have text him and he hasn't replied.
Move on.
Next!!!!!!

Need2Know4Sure

I would find an internet date a scary experience that might explain the behaviour leading up top the date and on it....But the fact he hasnt txt you back in bad manners....and you still seem interested...i find that odd.

If you did actually like him maybe just try phone him....maybe hes no credit to txt you

scarymoon1

Need2Know4Sure wrote: »

I would find an internet date a scary experience that might explain the behaviour leading up top the date and on it....But the fact he hasnt txt you back in bad manners....and you still seem interested...i find that odd.

If you did actually like him maybe just try phone him....maybe hes no credit to txt you

ya i guess he was nervous, he did say hes useless at txting and was up at 6 next day for work.

scarymoon1

im thinking the fact that hes so freaked out by the net, even tho he did like me, i just think hes too freaked out by the net. hes forgotton. tanx 4 replies. interesting how ye said forget him as he hasnt txt back straightaway, i always thought that 2 but a counsellor told me people cant reply asap as they are busy etc.

LegacyUser

Thats true, and your counsellor might be right in this instance.

But it sounded odd from the start. Seriously, don't put any more energy into thinking bout this guy. If he has your number and he wants to meet you again, he will text you again.

There are many men on the net - move on to the next one.

zxcvbnm1

I don't care what your counsellor says. It takes 30 secs to send a text. No one is that busy.

KillerKity

To be honest I'd put it down to experience and forget about him :pac:

leggo

Soon as ya said he texted to meet a few minutes later then went to bed, I thought: "Yup, he's testing to see if he can say 'jump' and you'll say 'how high'."

I'm guessing he sees you as 'easy' because he's got some false perceptions about Internet dating. And maybe he's getting some slagging from his mates, brother etc. To be honest, he sounds like an immature kid. I'd say move on.

So he thinks people who go on internet dates are weird but he tells his friends. What a champ.

Miss Fluff

Move on. A text takes 30 seconds. And while some people are not known for their talent for multitasking, eating a sandwich and texting is possible. As is sitting on the loo and texting. Or on the DART and texting. If he wanted to text, he would text. Simple as that. And if he's not a texter? Let him have the manners to phone you.

And I wouldn't see it as respectful AT ALL that he went home that night and then wanted to meet you again in a few minutes. For what? A legover? To prove that you'd come running????

I find it hilarious that this guy sees internet dating as being solely for weirdos when he sounds like the biggest weirdo going.

I'm genuinely wondering why you are even bothered tbh....