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  • 02-04-2010 2:59pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi all.
    Long time user, going unreg etc.
    A few bad things have happened to me in the last while. Broke up from a long term relationship, had a few falling outs with friends, failed exams, been lied and cheated upon since. I was doing well, or at least I thought I was, making up with friends, getting over the ex and studying some more. But lately, I've noticed I burst into tears at anything. I'm crying right now, I can't even tell why. Every night I've been crying.
    Does this happen alot to people? Is it something I should be majorly worried about? Or could it just be a phase?
    Thanks in advance.


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  • #2
    krustydoyle
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,941 ✭✭✭krustydoyle


    im no expert but it sounds like your depressed, go see your doc and tell him whats happened you.. speak to your family and they should be of comfort and support through this ordeal..

    All the best...
    Krusty.


  • #3
    Kevster
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,980 ✭✭✭Kevster


    Heya,

    You ask "Does this happen a lot to people?" - This would definately inflict anyone if all of these things happened to them too. They've all come at such a short time-period that you've probably not had time to sit back and think about what just happened. Not only thinking about what happened, but you've had no time to even recover. Once one thing went wrong, something else went wrong.

    You've had a rough ride, and you should recognise that. You're entitled to a break now and to sit back and think about how best to go forward from here. When some of us reach such points in our lives as you are now at, we have to reinvent ourselves. This may involve leaving some thigns (and/or people) behind as we move forward.

    krustydoyle's reply is short but straight to the point, and something you must consider. If you genuinely cannot see a positive future right now, then you need external help, be it from your parents or the local doctor.

    Kevin


  • #4
    krustydoyle
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,941 ✭✭✭krustydoyle


    Sorry what i should of put in was that, whats happened to you is bound to be a massive shock to the system and maybe its all after coming back on top of you... hence the crying most nights.. life will get better.. and you will get stronger.

    Krusty.


  • #5
    AdmiralRazor
    Closed Accounts Posts: 36 ✭AdmiralRazor


    Sounds like a classic case of depression. Now is the time to collect your thoughts and feelings and decide what it is you want to do about all of the bad stuff that's gone down in your life recently. Maybe think about seeing a therapist.


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