Girl Trouble

LegacyUser

Hey all,

I'm looking for some help was out a while ago, Went to a club but had a 2 hour bus trip each way..

On the way there I got talking to a Girl, We were both having fun and laughing etc and were getting along great, Went into the club and lost her and I thought no more..

I saw her a few times dancing with her friends but just left her alone, Then I was upstairs and she came running over to me and we started chatting again, Probably doing that for about an hour, In which time she lost her friends, When it came to closing time she couldn't find them and I could tell she wanted me to stay with her, In the end we got on the bus and headed home, Talked for the whole journey and just had a good time. When we got back to where we originally got the bus she said I could go back to her place to get a drink of water(my throat was in pain) so I did and we started chatting again and in the end left at about 5am, She seemed fine, Then I walked out the door got totally lost and rung her, Again she seemed fine and that was it..

Text her the day after and at first she seemed fine, But after a few messages it just seemed like she didn't want to know about me, I was just asking her how she was today and what she thought of the club and now today I'm faced with what to do next, I haven't text her since yesterday and don't know what to do or what to say, I really want to text her as I'd love to meet up with her again at some point, But It's very hard to tell..

I don't know if I've done something wrong or what?

Usually this wouldn't bother me but I just really liked this girl and we just got on great..

Thanks in advance for any advice

bronte

You've got nothing to lose by taking the plunge I reckon.
You two obviously got on and had a good time.
She could be thinking exactly what you're thinking and is wondering if you'll arrange to meet up again.
Do it!

LegacyUser

Thanks for the reply bronte,

That's really what I'd like to do but I've just got something in my head telling me not to, It just seems if I keep texting her it'll just make her not like me even more..?

JonathanAnon

Well done on not texting her obsessively.. this can usually be the panic reaction... I would leave it a couple of days and maybe ask her out at the weekend.. maybe say to her that you are going to a particular place if she would like to join you.. casual like.

Jonagod

why'dye not make the move that nite! clearly was expecting you too, she mite think youre frigid now, write some dirty texts to her - show her you're packin heat between the legs

LegacyUser

JonathanAnon wrote: »

Well done on not texting her obsessively.. this can usually be the panic reaction... I would leave it a couple of days and maybe ask her out at the weekend.. maybe say to her that you are going to a particular place if she would like to join you.. casual like.

Cheers for that, I might give that a shot, It doesn't help much that this is my last week in College!

Jonagod wrote: »

why'dye not make the move that nite! clearly was expecting you too, she mite think youre frigid now, write some dirty texts to her - show her you're packin heat between the legs

I honestly don't know... But I don't think I'll start sending her dirty texts.. Might be a bit to far..

christina_x

Jonagod wrote: »

why'dye not make the move that nite! clearly was expecting you too, she mite think youre frigid now, write some dirty texts to her - show her you're packin heat between the legs

dont do this.
Just ask her does she want to do something this weekend, if she says no then leave it Atleast you'll know

Ahoy!

ye man, your best bet is to ask her out and see how she responds. If its positive, happy days. If she says no, forget it. Eitherway, you loose nothing, but gain a bit of experience with women.

LegacyUser

Thanks all for the help,

I've just been thinking about this to much, I've a long bus journey later and I'm just going to figure something out..

Thanks again!

katie99

Ring her!

Tell her you enjoyed her company, you find her very attractive and wondered if she would like to go out with your for a drink.

If she's interested she will say yes. If not she will hesitate, make up some exscuse.

Either way don't put yourself throught he emotional pain barrier over her.
You only met her the one night and she's on your mind.

The fact that you didn't make a move on her that night might make her feel your not that interested.

I would prefer a guy to ring me and ask me out then to be sending endless texts that are a pain.