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  • 26-03-2010 12:27pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    Hi,

    Ive been seeing a beautiful girl for a few months now and i have noticed a change in myself in that i am constantly looking for approval. I ask stupid questions like do you love me or do you miss me and i think about things far too much. How do i stop this before it ruins the best thing to ever happen to me?

    Tks


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
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    Hi OP,

    Have you thought about what the underlying reasons for asking those questions are? Have you had security issues in the past? I agree with Sunflower, that kind of obsessiveness/ need for reassurance is very off-putting. Particularly so early on in the relationship! Was there something in particular that sparked this change?

    On a good nots, you obviously have found someone you really care about and that's always good! Hope it works out OP :)


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    OP I was like this in my last relationship (and the one before!) together for 6 months and after a few months i got like this. we broke up in Jan and i know that this was the main reason for us breaking up. i got obsessive, jealous about her, constantly looked for re-assurance (even in a text message!!). she was in the UK and like a fool i asked her all those silly questions when i didn't need to!!

    we were both early 30s and i thought she was finally the one for me, still haven't gotten over it.

    trust me you will lose her if you keep this up.


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