Don't know what's happening

LegacyUser

Okay, so yesterday I had an argument with my boyfriend and I didn't think it was that major. I asked could I call him later on and he said I could but since then there has been no answer. He hasn't responded to my texts or IMs even though I can see him online. He hasn't mentioned coming home (we live together but he stayed at home last night). I don't know what else I can do, I mean I don't know if I should take it that we've broken up or what and it's really stressing me. I just don't know what to do...

banquo

I'd say he just needs some breathing space. You both were obviously fighting for a reason, and sometimes arguments that seem small can be related to bigger issues for both of you. He might still be annoyed. You've tried to contact him, so you've held up your part and any more might just be badgering him at a time when he needs some space. Just give him some time

Kormeera X

Leave him for a while, try ring him or even send him a text or IM saying that you need to talk. Im not being crude, but if he cares for you at all he will listen and meet you (sorry for saying that!)

LegacyUser

I have a niggling feeling that he just wants out, it's actually killing me. I think if I back off he'll get the impression that I don't care. It's really tough because I love him so much...

profitius

Well, its not exactly the behaviour of a real man. What was the fight about and has his behaviour changed lately?

It could be that he wants out. It could also be him trying to make you suffer.