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Am I not the 'friend' type?

  • 19-03-2010 8:29pm
    #1
    gonnaplayrugby
    Closed Accounts Posts: 453 ✭✭


    i dont seem to have much close friends even tho im popular enough and i wonder why? im a bit of an introvert and dont really take iniative so maby i should be more proactive but i tend to go with the mantra if people want to go out theyll give u a ring/text or watever.

    perhaps its coz im 'boring'(in the irish sense) in that i dont drink but im up for headin out if somethins goin on.


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  • #2
    Kevster
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,980 ✭✭✭Kevster


    That's a mistake - i.e. assuming that people will call you to go out. In a friendship, you are expected to contribute to decision-making too, and should be throwing out suggestions and appearing eager to meet up. However, you mentioned that you're an introvert. I am one too and haven't ben inside a nightclub for around 7 years now. Do'nt end up like me. Be proactive and get out there

    Kevin


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