Is it gentemanly to attend an orgy?

ronaldoshaky

Got invited to an orgy recently. I was a bit shaken to find out that stuff like this is going on. What do you think? Would you go to something like this?

Pherekydes

You'll get better answers in AH.

CDfm

OP the question should be is it moral & whether you would be comfortable with it.Did the invite include your partner.

I once got an invite from a couple that I knew for a few years and it included sex with the lady. They werent close friends but in my social circle at the time. I was single.

To me the invite was weird & I thought it was a joke but they were serious. It wouldnt be for me.AFAIK they are still together.

Anyway, I think the guitarist Jeff Beck summed it up this type of question best when asked how he felt about people copying his style of guitar playing with something like "Its like someone patting your girlfriends arse, its flattering but you don't need it"

The Beatles song "Why dont we do it on the road" was according to Paul McCartney a riddle the answer being "we don't because we are not animals."

So in summary, yes it is gentlemanly to attend but it depends on your own point of view on what you want to get out of it.

The Corinthian

ronaldoshaky wrote: »

Got invited to an orgy recently. I was a bit shaken to find out that stuff like this is going on. What do you think? Would you go to something like this?

This is the wrong board for this question - Sex & Sexuality, AH or even PI would be more appropriate, TBH.

But to answer the titular question, even though it's rhetorical, of course it is. Sexual licentiousness has long been part of the life of ladies and gentlemen based on the fact that both ladies and gentlemen follow the principle of public virtues and private vices. It has only been in the last century or two that Victorian morality took a harsher view (but never stopped it).

Now, kissing and telling... that would be ungentlemanly in any era.