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  • 16-03-2010 9:08pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hey everyone, well, it's the usual story here. I'm not really seeking any advice, I just really want to vent so to speak.

    Anyway, recently (about 3 or so weeks ago), I met this girl on a night out through a friend (she's actually my friend's girlfriend's sister, but anyway...) So we were chatting, had a good night, all that lark. I didn't get her number that night but my friend managed to talk to her and a few days later, she texted me. So we were chatting via text messages for a few days, everything's going well so far.

    So last week I built up the courage to ask her out, and so I rang her and she agreed to go on a night out. Happy days I thought, and so we went out on Saturday and we had a really good time, and in the end of the night, we shared a kiss. Happy days yet again.

    So this is where everything goes down hill. She texted me nearly every day prior to going out, but I didn't hear from her at all since Saturday. I decided to ring her today, just really for a chat, and I asked her if we could maybe meet up again sometime. She was very distant on the phone, hard to make conversation and such, and when I asked her out again, she said that she had to concentrate on her studies (she's doing the LC this year). I asked weather she'd like to go out in maybe a few weeks time, and the answer I got was 'eh..... maybe'. The conversation pretty much ended there.

    Man, I just feel so depressed, I really like this girl, and after thinking we had a good night out, I thought I may have a chance of going out with her, but obviously not. OK, she has her LC and all that to do, but she could have at least told me she wants to concentrate on that in the beginning, as well as not been interested in me.

    I've never really been successful when it comes to women, the last girlfriend (and only one for that matter) I had ended 3 years ago, and it was messy when it ended (she cheated on me). I've always been sort of the shy type, and the few women that I did manage to get their numbers from a night out, they pretty much rejected the idea of going on a date afterwards.

    It's bad enough I suffer from clinical depression (I hide it quite well though, as well as the fact I'm battling a drink problem too), but it seems the single life is the only future for me.

    I'm starting to think if I should just give up on looking for women altogether. It just seems to be ending up going no where, while making the depression worse.

    Well that's it really, thanks for reading if you got to this stage! I'll finish with this quote from the comedian Al Murray: "Life is an endless, relentless series of grinding disappointments."


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  • #2
    profitius
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,976 ✭✭✭profitius


    So what happened on the date? Did you both have a few drinks before the kiss?

    You have low self esteem and a negative attitude. If you want to attract women you have to change yourself and learn HOW to attract them. Its not complicated and you can transform your 'luck' with women very quickly.

    Just stop with the negative 'life is a grind' talk. It is a grind for people who think like that.


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