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Dont know what to do with my boyfriend

  • 16-03-2010 4:57pm
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    So I have been seeing this guy for about 3months and I really like him and I mean a lot I adore him and Im pretty shure he feels the same way about me. But the problem is he has know friends really except for maybe two other guys, he has told me that he got into the wrong crowd when he was younger and got in a lot of trouble and is now trying to change his ways. He told me that he was only able to shake them off about a year ago and he is travelling up and down from college every day so only been able to make friends with about two other people. The problem is I find that he is constantly hanging around with me everywhere when he is not at college and I have tried to make him friends with my friends but he seems to get really cold around them and just go quiet and then when he is with me he is so loud and funny and always makes me laugh, I confronted him about that and he said sorry but he finds it really diffuclt to trust people after what he has been threw.

    This isint the worst situation to be in but I do need some advice with this


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  • #2
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    whatdoIdo101 wrote: »
    So I have been seeing this guy for about 3months and I really like him and I mean a lot I adore him and Im pretty shure he feels the same way about me. But the problem is he has know friends really except for maybe two other guys, he has told me that he got into the wrong crowd when he was younger and got in a lot of trouble and is now trying to change his ways. He told me that he was only able to shake them off about a year ago and he is travelling up and down from college every day so only been able to make friends with about two other people. The problem is I find that he is constantly hanging around with me everywhere when he is not at college and I have tried to make him friends with my friends but he seems to get really cold around them and just go quiet and then when he is with me he is so loud and funny and always makes me laugh, I confronted him about that and he said sorry but he finds it really diffuclt to trust people after what he has been threw.

    This isint the worst situation to be in but I do need some advice with this
    Hey op sorry i didnt see this before and hope you check again.

    I was in same situation as your bf loads of bad friends.It is a issue you have to let him sort out himself just be supportive.Maybe a brother could drag him to the pub for a drink? But its totally understandable,he likes your company and happy around you.Just tell him nicely that sometimes you need your own space.All you can do is let him find his own feet and in time he will learn to trust your friends to.You sound like a sweet couple i hope everything works out :)


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