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  • 14-03-2010 3:30pm
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I've (guy 35) been really close friends with a great girl (she 32) for about fifteen years since we worked together on a job. we both married different people but over the years stayed close friends. My marriage broke up two years ago and she was a great support. her marriage finished last year and I was there for her. We spent a lot of time together over the last six months (platonically) but last night something clicked and we ended up in bed together and made love all night. We both agreed this morning that we're thrilled it happened and have no regrets. She's gone to collect her sister from the airport and is coming back over tonight. My question now is: have ruined our friendship? Have we a future together? we don't have children. She says she wants kids and I do too. Do we throw caution to the wind and go for a full on relationship because FULL ON it would be. I have always loved her and she says the same.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 202 ✭✭encore1


    WOW!!!

    of course you throw caution to the wind and give it a shot! do you realise how lucky you both are to have found that in eachother?!! I'm jealous :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,328 ✭✭✭cafecolour


    Yes. Why wouldn't you?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,199 ✭✭✭G-Money


    I'm envious. That sounds really good dude, you should go for it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,145 ✭✭✭SarahSassy


    Do go for it but (from experience) dont assume because you are friends and there is chemistry that this is a relationship made in heaven. Assess your compatability with her as you would any new relationship but take it slow, be open and honest with her and enjoy :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    AW, that's so romantic! Really hope it works out for you. Take your time with it and enjoy.


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