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is it me or am i missing something?

  • 14-03-2010 11:03am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I started work just over 5 months ago, its my dream job etc.

    problem started a week ago,
    I was on night duty and everything seemed fine..
    until the next day my boss invited me in for a discussion. One of my co-workers reported me as sleeping on the job.

    ..now,i just don't know how to get myself out of this. If i felt sleepy, like everyone does, i would close my eyes but would not fall asleep and i'd be ok. now its blown up into this huge serious accusation.

    it's also made me aware of the people i work with, its like some people activelly avoid working with me and because we have to work in pairs at times there is no-one there when i want to pair up with someone, they communicate with others but not with me and my boss is saying that it is me with the communication problem, then i end up working on my own. i just don't know where im going wrong and i feel im going to lose my job if things don't improve.

    how do i improve on communication is what im probably trying to ask


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  • #2
    theg81der
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,644 ✭✭✭theg81der


    Hi! Any chance theres more to the situation? Are peoples jobs secure or are they feeling anxious about their positions? Are you smarter or more qualified, maybe they feel threatened? Could the boss need to get rid of someone and be trying to bully you out?

    Its very hard to communicate with people who have decided they don`t like you already and are not open to the possibility of changing their minds.

    You seem very quick to blame yourself are you sure its you?


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Im not sure if it is me or what the heck is going on.
    but when this happened it reminded me of the times i was in college,always the one left out of things, i tought one person how to use the computer for assignments and thought we were friends only to find she was bitching behind my back.she then left college and i was there to be humiliated and felt alone. another woman i tought how to do her assignment loved taking my knowledge but treated me like dirt,i needed a leaflet to write things down and she was quick to temper that she also needed it.

    in school,it was the same story,i always had to try harder than others to fit in,always had to defend myself.

    i always try to help people if i know how,im kind,have a great character,don't like to gossip at all, some people say quiet and reserved (maybe that is the reason?) but looking over the past and present i feel like its always going to be like this and i'll forever be betrayed as someone i am not or treated like a bafoon at the end of the day.saying that there is people that do like me and i have no problem with, it's like i'm an easy target for people who like to vent frustration apon for some strange reason..


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