Advertisement
If you have a new account but are having problems posting or verifying your account, please email us on hello@boards.ie for help. Thanks :)
Hello all! Please ensure that you are posting a new thread or question in the appropriate forum. The Feedback forum is overwhelmed with questions that are having to be moved elsewhere. If you need help to verify your account contact hello@boards.ie
Hi there,
There is an issue with role permissions that is being worked on at the moment.
If you are having trouble with access or permissions on regional forums please post here to get access: https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058365403/you-do-not-have-permission-for-that#latest

How long to get over it??

  • 13-03-2010 4:53pm
    #1
    Jessiegirl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 148 ✭✭


    How long does it take to get over someone, does it depend on each relationship? I've had a couple and each seems different when it ends, depending on whether he broke up or I broke up etc. iykwim

    Boyfriend broke up with me 9 weeks ago. Saw him to do the 'exchange', chat, 7 weeks ago. Last contact was when he sent me some trivial text 5 weeks ago - I didn't reply.

    I thought I was doing ok but lately I've been feeling much worse and missing him more!! Still crying for him the odd time and the like, checking on facebook, phone etc. I'm becoming more miserable lately, seem to be going backwards.

    I've had the chance to date a couple of times since, friend of my best friend and online but I'm not in any hurry, it scares me a bit.

    Is it a case of the old adage, 'time is a healer'?.....


Comments

  • #2
    dotsflan
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,014 ✭✭✭dotsflan


    well i dont have an answer for you but i broke up with my gf 4 months ago and im still not ready to date anyone else yet, Hope that helps:)


  • #3
    Barracudaincork
    Closed Accounts Posts: 773 ✭✭✭Barracudaincork


    It varies, its mainlyyour attitude about the breakup that defines the length of time it takes, if you are positive and keep yourself busy etc the time will pass quicker, if you mope about the place well then time will drag, so my advice would be to be good to yourself, dress up tomorrow, go for lunch, do some shopping etc and just get on with life and think about mr right around the corner,and not mr just passed :)


  • #4
    Jessiegirl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 148 ✭✭Jessiegirl


    I'd love to do lunch and go shopping and treat myself to loads of things but not possible on the dole !!! No can do.
    I'll walk my dog instead and stay home alone ! I got him after ex dumped me.

    I'm going to Dublin for night out & stayover next weekend which will be good diversion.


Advertisement