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feel like a pr*ck

  • 13-03-2010 2:02pm
    #1
    tupac10
    Closed Accounts Posts: 51 ✭✭


    right guys & girls.. i posted a few weeks back about how i broke up wit my girlfriend of 6 years and was with a good friends sister, we kept seeing each other for a few weeks nothin serious.. during the week i met one of my ex's that i havent seen in 7 years on a night out.. we got chatting and i ended up sleeping with her.. and some how my good friends sister that im wit found out.. she wanted to know where we stood.. i said i didnt want a relationship right now because im only out of 6 year relitionship and she wanted 1.. we ended things in a bad way.. she said i hurt her.. but in would not be fair on her if i agreesd to a relitionship.. like i know shes hurt and i wish i could change things but i cant.. any advice???


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  • #2
    Kevster
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,980 ✭✭✭Kevster


    You seem to imply that yuo sleeping with your ex was something of an accident. There is ample time for you, however, to just say 'no' and walk awauy from such a situation. you knew very well that it was wrong. You need to exercise control of your actions in the future. This leads me to the next bit of 'advice' (if you see it as that): Move on and away from all of this nonsense and mess. You don't owe any of these girls anything. In addition, I'd argue that if you try to maintain a friendship with your friend, thi stuff will always be brought uip later down the line whenever the slightest argument occusr.

    Just move on. Friendships aren't meabnt to last forever; and hurting people is a consequence of simply growing up.

    Kevin


  • #3
    unreggd
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,835 ✭✭✭unreggd


    Kevster wrote: »
    Friendships aren't meant to last forever
    But they can! :rolleyes:


    OP, did she have any reason to think you were going out? Like, did you say it to her upfront, you didn't want a relationship?
    And why exactly did you sleep with an ex?

    Regardless of meaning to hurt the new girl, you did. So just apologize and try move past it


  • #4
    tupac10
    Closed Accounts Posts: 51 ✭✭tupac10


    we said we could see other people but she said she didnt want to..


    as for sleepin with my ex.. i met her on a night out and got chattin and one thing lead to another... i didnt plan it..

    i hav said sorry but it would have hurt her more if i jumped into a realtionship that i didnt want..


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