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Can girls loose their confidence?

  • 12-03-2010 11:32pm
    #1
    Jake LeMotta
    Closed Accounts Posts: 184 ✭✭


    Unrelated to my other thread..

    I just have a quick question to girls and guys.

    Do any of you have experience of girls where they loose their confidence, aura and basic sex appeal.

    It just makes sense to me that the strengths of our character are based on our lifestyle right?
    i.e. a challenging lifestyle makes us strong, a weak lax lifestyle does nothing for us.

    Our lifestyle in turn is dictated by our mentality, our focus, what we want to achieve, what our goals and priorities are.

    You know they say self destructive behavior is associated with frustration due to personal failure or shortcomings, perhaps with lifestyle, and this can be due simply to lack of application of practical wisdom or mis-placed priorities.

    The example I'm taking refers specifically to college girls.
    The college lifestyle, it's lax, it's lazy and for some, particularly those with addictive personalities, its very easy to get caught up in and loose focus on other important things in life e.g. sports, other pastimes such as reading etc, all of which are very productive.

    Is it possible or does anyone have experience with a girl who at one point is very confident and sure of herself and then after a period of engaging in this lifestyle, looses that confidence.

    The reason for the change of lifestyle from a strong to weak; possible disillusionment with the challenging lifestyle that makes her strong.
    Getting simply caught up in the college type life, loosing focus, or misplacing her priorities. i.e. having a good time ahead of maintaining strength of character, possibly due to her unawareness of the above, naivety etc.

    Cheers in advance

    P.s. if anyone finds that confusing or vague please feel free to ask me to elaborate.


Comments

  • #2
    Zaph
    Registered Users, Subscribers, Registered Users 2 Posts: 47,351 ✭✭✭✭Zaph


    PI is not here for you to start general discussion threads. If you have a specific personal issue that you wish to seek advice on, please post it in a clear and concise manner, otherwise I'm locking this thread.


  • #3
    Silverfish
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 16,698 Mod ✭✭✭✭Silverfish


    This is not a personal issue. I think you need to read the charter of this forum and get an idea of what its for, thanks.


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