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confused

  • 12-03-2010 1:17pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    Really confused lately, I left my wife and kids a while ago as no matter what we tried we just could not get on and I tried but whatever I did was not good enough and only my bad points were picked up on. Anyway I got talking to a wonderful woman just before I moved out and nothing happened but my ex wife saw my phone messages and presumed I was sleeping with this woman but I had not. So I moved out eventually and stayed with this woman and now we are together but she has got very insecure lately and I don't know whats going on with her. Is she having second thoughts about us or is it something else. I have tried to talk to my ex wife but there is still tension there and I see the kids on a regular basis either by minding them when she heads out or during their school week. I do miss my kids an awful lot and at times I feel horrible inside for what I have done to them and the family I destroyed. My girlfriend is wonderful but lately we have being having rows over stupid things and she wants me in her life one minute and the next she says I am too in her face I can't win. I don't know who or what to talk to as I just feel like being on my own and doing them all a favour.


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I think you should have given yourself a bit more time before you moved in with your new girlfriend. It's not easy getting over a separation, especially when children are involved-it's tough on everyone.

    If I were you, I'd move into my own place until I settled into my new life. You're juggling a lot of balls trying to be on good terms with your ex wife, worrying about your children and living with a new partner. At the moment, I think your thoughts and energy should be saved for your ex wife (difficult but necessary if it's to be a separation with minimum disruption for the children), and for your children.

    Take care


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