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  • 08-03-2010 5:03pm
    #1
    cheesey1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 182 ✭✭


    Not sure if this is the RI is the correct place for this thread.

    Normal story bf and I broke up a while back - still in touch by text which I'm not sure is a good think.

    Yesterday evening we were texting and I told him I was going to give him some unasked for advice told him he was a great guy but he keeps too much to himself which doesn't help him or the other person i.e. me when we were dating and that he needs to be more open.

    He is a great guy in every way but just doesn't share his feelings and I not that I want him to tell me what he was doing all the time communication is the key.

    Just wondered would anyone find this an offence thing to say to an ex?

    Thanks.


Comments

  • #2
    Kiera
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,130 ✭✭✭✭Kiera


    Nah thats not a big deal. Its not like you were having a go at him.


  • #3
    MelanieC
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,883 ✭✭✭MelanieC


    I don't think it's offensive but I do think maybe you should have said it to him when ye were together, maybe ye wouldn't be exes now? Like you said, communication is key, even more so in a relationship rather than after the fact. :o


  • #4
    cheesey1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 182 ✭✭cheesey1


    I have heard from him and he said he wasn't offended.

    MelanieC totally agree with you it should have been said while we were in a relationship and maybe if it had been said we wouldn't have broken up but that is a different issue altogether

    Thanks.


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