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rebelchick2

A year ago I broke up with my ex, we were living together and I was madly in love but I found out he was messing around with someone else. We had a big fight and he left me in his house that day telling me to move out before he got home. It took me ages to get over him, I kept blaming myself. I have been on a few dates since but they didnt go anywhere. since christmas, I have been thinking about my ex again prob because I'm lonely, but last night out of the blue he text me, "would you like to talk?" At first, I didnt realise who it was because i had erased his number and replied Who is this? he replied back "me" When i asked again, he changed his mind and said he had the wrong number.

I cant believe I was getting over him and now I feel he's landed me back to square one!

Why do men have to be such B*****ds?????:( Really dont know how I'm gonna pick myself up from this.

mood

How can you be sure it was him if you don't have his number and he didn't say who he was? It could have been anyone.

Sounds like your better off without him.

rebelchick2

I was with him for 3 years so I know his number, its just he text late and I was half asleep.

It was def him.

LegacyUser

This is an easy one to answer.When you said who is this he was embarrassed you didnt keep his number.And there fore answered wrong number.If you wanted and would like to talk to him write back i didn't recognise number as you were half asleep and how are you if you are not wanting to talk to him then stay well away.Nothing wrong with seeing what he wants.

Jessiegirl

If it was me I'd have to know what he was at as it would bug me. I'd text him back 'what do you want to talk about?' and if it is nothing serious I'd ignore him as this is setting you back like you said. Put it to bed again.

If he texted you late he could have been drunk, bored, lonely....though maybe he did seriously want to talk to you and chickened out at the 1st hurdle.

mood

He cheated on you then kicked you out when you had a fight about his cheating. You are better off without him.

rebelchick2

Thanks for all the replies. I know he's not good for me, but somehow I still have feelings for him.
It was bugging me so I text him back to ask what did he want to talk about and he has ignored my text.
Typical