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Slept work colleague!

  • 07-03-2010 4:27pm
    #1
    lexabel
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11 ✭


    Need some advice please..

    So ive fancied this guy in work for a while and there has been some flirthing going on but nothing major as he had a girlfriend. So last night he rings to ask if im heading out, he picks me up, pays for hte taxis/drinks and is pretty much being lovely all night, so much so that ppl from work are asking me if something happened!- then he tells me that he's split from his GF......im like yes.....so few more drinks/dancing. I end up bringing him home......we had a great night BUT I think I got played.....which sucks cause I like him


    what happeneds now.......I've never done this before and we work together and I want it to happen again......


    how do I act or say!!!


    opinions/views would be great!


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  • #2
    Cheap Thrills!
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,723 ✭✭✭Cheap Thrills!


    What makes you think you got played though?

    It was only last night.....early days!

    (If he was only using you and it becomes clear it was only a ons then just brazen it out at work. You've nothing to be embarassed about. Be pleasant and polite)


  • #3
    Katgurl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,145 ✭✭✭Katgurl


    How was he the next day?


  • #4
    lexabel
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11 ✭lexabel


    So its Monday in work now, and he's acting as if nothing happened!!!! even when we had a few moments alone........ggggrrrr so annoying......

    Shall I just go alone with this and just accept it as a very good one night thing?:confused:


  • #5
    gavney1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 537 ✭✭✭gavney1


    well, he may just be acting like nothing happened cause he doesn't want it to interfere with work

    I'm guessing YOU acted like nothing happened as well? You never know, he could be thinking "why did she act like nothing happened?"


  • #6
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    lexabel wrote: »
    So last night he rings to ask if im heading out, he picks me up, pays for hte taxis/drinks and is pretty much being lovely all night, so much so that ppl from work are asking me if something happened!

    Am confused. Did you both go to a work thing on Saturday night or did you tell people today that you met him on Saturday? How come work people know to ask whether something happened or not?


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  • #7
    cafecolour
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,328 ✭✭✭cafecolour


    You're generally supposed to act like nothing happened while at work, that's one of the keys to carrying on with a workmate.

    Shoot him a text saying that you enjoyed the eve, and you're free later in the week if he wants to do it again. His response will tell you his answer.


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