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Lady issue

  • 04-03-2010 9:02pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Situation: Went out about a week or so ago and was chatting to a girl for a few hours, one of the nicest girls I have talked to for a while. This was with minimal drink influence. So we go to a club, get dancing and kiss. After a while, I head off to the bathroom. Come back a minute later and she is talking to some lad. I decide to leave her and find one of my friends. When I come back to her, she is kissing this lad. So I then went over to my friends and start dancing with them. After a while, I went to find her again and she doesn't want to talk to me! So after starting off being a great night, I end up feeling like ****. Now I know she had a lot to drink in the club and was drinking before we went out. Should that be an excuse for her kissing that lad and not wanting to talk to me afterwards?

    But after her being with that lad, is that a message that I should leave her be? I am able to get her number off a friend but havn't as of yet. What does anyone think is the message here, and what should I do next?!

    Thanks in advance! Girls confuse me so much!


Comments

  • #2
    Colonel_McCoy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 751 ✭✭✭Colonel_McCoy


    Sorry but she is not interested.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Ok, I didn't manage to get her number but she somehow got mine... She apologised for the way she acted and wanted to make it up to me. So we are now going out for dinner in a cuple of days. Let's see how it plays out!


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Funny enough, I did!

    I was gonna reply that the girl got too drunk and ended up with the other lad out of drunken stupidity more than anything. Been in a similar situation and woke up the next morning absolutely sick with myself that I copped off with the second fella - often think about the first fella who I had a great night with before the alcohol kicked in. But I never had the courage to contact him and apologise for my behaviour, and I regret that.
    Seriously, a drunken snog in a nightclub is not worth worrying about - go out for dinner with her and accept her apology! Good luck and let us know how it progresses!


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