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Need help to make the first move! ASAP!

  • 27-02-2010 7:07pm
    #1
    ThatGuyAgain
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17 ✭


    Advice appreciated asap!

    I've got a date soon where I've been invited to a girls house for drinks/movie. We're both mid twenties but I have no experience with this type of thing at all.

    I need help to make the first move. I have a good idea that she likes me, and I fancy the pants off her. Obviously it has to be built up to, I can't just plant a kiss on her out of nowhere. Does anyone have any tips?

    So if we're watching a movie sitting next to each other...what should I do without weirding her out and making a fool out of myself!


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  • #2
    Taltos
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,830 ✭✭✭✭Taltos


    Stop overthinking it for one.

    What works for one of us might just blow you out of the water so I would take any advice with a grain of salt.

    Personally - would try to sit close - encourage her to snuggle in etc - but if you are too pushy you could instead come across as claustrophic.

    Or jokingingly - when you arrive in - go in and kiss both cheeks - if she responds - just answer - "well I thought that would be safer than trying to kiss you right away...".

    Big thing is to relax, be confident, even just reach across and take her hand at some point - if she does not pull away then follow up with a kiss - if she pulls her hand - well maybe the timing was off - maybe try once more later - but a 2nd pull back - then chances are you are in friendzone.

    Am sure though you will get some really helpful advice later. :)


  • #3
    force majeure
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 387 ✭✭force majeure


    What ever you do don't go cold... keep the small talk going and at some stage look in to her eyes for a few seconds [30 odd] that well send a message. :)


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