Blllleeehhhh

Aidan2160

I'm writing this cause im sick of thinking about it, when i think about it i try to concentrate on something different. I dont want your advice cause iv asked people before and they give me terrible advice.

I work with a girl, i really liked her. i couldn't really talk to her like other people did, i can go up and say 'your beautiful' but i can't go up and joke with her. anyway we flirted stuff and i eventually asked her out, she said yes, the next night i asked her if she wanted to come out to a club, she said no she'd be goin out later in the week, she was in the club i went to that night. I ignored her the next day when she asked how my night was, we didn't talk for a week. I still had feelings for her, we went to a work party where she scored some knacker we work with. I went home quite drunk and wrote to her on facebook, explaining how i felt. she wrote back saying i was being ridiculous. we started saying hello to each other again. I asked yahoo answers what i should do, everyone said i should let her go. i ignored them. on valentines day i walked up to her and gave her a rose. she texted me that night saying thanks, i knew she liked it, i felt like i could do anything that night i was so happy. Now im stuck, she still talks to that knacker and it pisses me off, she wont ever talk to me the way she talks to him, iv talked with him he's a ****ing tool, doesn't know where he's going, gunna end up being a drunk in a bar by the age of 30.......this girl, i dunno, i cant just leave it, theres 2 options take a leap of faith and try be with her, or ignore her and let this thing fade into the background. We dont even talk and i know what type of girl she is, just by looking at her, i wanna be with her, but after she's been with that guy i dunno.

Peggypeg

Hey OP,

I know you said you didn't want replies but I'm feeling naughty:D. I think you have this girl on a pedestal, just remember she takes a dump likes everyone else. And you know what? if you're correct then she's into knobheads, take it as a compliment that she's not into you. Give her the time to be threated like a piece crap by the other guy then swoop in and help her feel better when it inevitably ends. I'd say just be her friend for now if you can and stop thinking of her as this amazing person, she may be to you but she's human like everyone else. I know rejection hurts but if act on it and are mean about it then you're being a wee bit of a knob head yourself. Remember she doesn't owe you anything coz you're not together. Also have a look around and you may find someone that you prefer and the likes you back.

Best of luck.