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  • 25-02-2010 9:51pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    So, there's this girl in my lecture group at college that I'm interested in, and have been for some time, but haven't attempted to make a move...

    I'm hoping to actually do something about all this tomorrow, but I'm at a loss as to what to say. I don't really have much (well, any) experience with this, and it's really making me feel even more nervous than I already am :P

    So, any thoughts as to what I could say/suggest? I was thinking of suggesting going out for a drink or to the cinema some afternoon/evening after college, but I'm just very unsure :(


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  • #2
    merlie
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 673 ✭✭✭merlie


    Hi Op,

    I would not suggest inviting her to the cinema as you cannot talk and get to know one another. Just be yourself, ask her would she like to go for a coffee and a chat or something very informal and not to date like, so it won't feel like too much pressure on either of you. See how things go from there.

    Good luck

    Have fun :)


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I know exactly how you feel, same as me except I'm the girl who fancies the boy :( Don't know how he feels,, maybe he likes me as a friend, don't know how I'd feel about that! I don't think I could ever tell him incase he laughed but if you can, you should! You never know, the girl could be me ;) Good luck!


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    First of all, thanks for the advice. Unfortunately, the oppurtunity I had hoped for didn't arise (as she wasn't around on Friday :() so I'm going to have to wait a little longer :P Oh, I guess I'll just have to wait until the right moment presents itself and see how things fair out.
    samestory wrote: »
    I know exactly how you feel, same as me except I'm the girl who fancies the boy :( Don't know how he feels,, maybe he likes me as a friend, don't know how I'd feel about that! I don't think I could ever tell him incase he laughed but if you can, you should! You never know, the girl could be me ;) Good luck!
    Hehe, that would be unexpected, and intriguing, to say the least ^_^


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