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Changing the way you think???...

  • 24-02-2010 6:05pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    What do you do if you find youself constantly questioning your other half if something doesn't add up or if you have something running through your mind?

    I find I do it and it's starting to harm our relationship. I find I need to do it though. Just to make the idea or worry fizzle out. But it's a catch 22. My idea fizzles but my other half then feels as though I don't trust her and makes her feel insecure.

    I'm not sure if it's because of my mode of thinking or if it's because I have reason.

    In the past I've seen my gf either lie or put a gloss over things and do it well and sometimes it plays up on my mind that she may have done it to me but obviously I can't say that to her.

    Has anyone ever had anything similar? Would make my life a breeze if some1 had advice!


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I just went through something similar
    I was dating a girl for the past 6 weeks she would just dissapear at times once she said she was going to a wedding and dissapered for 3 days. I asked her was something going on and she flatly denied it so after being stood up 98 percent of the time I gave her the shoulder tonight.
    In my experience theres no smoke without fire, but remember If you go looking for answers always be prepared for what you find.


  • #3
    beautyqueen
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 68 ✭✭beautyqueen


    my bf is some times a compulsive liar and sounds very similar to your girlfriend. how long have you been goin out with her? its its a good while you probably now when she's lying just by body language and that. some ppl might say your paranoid or whatever but i know what you mean, i find the best thing to do is talk, keep asking questions till your happy you know the truth, even if it causes a row, if she has nothingto hide she'l be desperate to clear her name.


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