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6 months of sadness

  • 22-02-2010 9:42pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    So I've been feeling down for the past six months and decided to turn to Boards for some advice.

    I was in a relationship which ended six months ago.
    I'm 16 years of age and some might say that's too young to know what love is or it's puppy love. Not a day goes by that I don't think about him :( I just feel sad and empty inside. I've tried to get over him by going out with other people but they just don't compare.
    It was a mutual break up at the time but was his idea as we go to different schools.
    We never see each other and I don't think he would be too keen on seeing me again.
    He also seems to have changed his number which makes me think even more that he wants no contact with me. I just can't move on. I cry some nights I miss him that much. I wish I would have done things different in our relationship and it just really makes me depressed!
    We weren't together for a long time (8 months or around that)
    But I just grew to love him more and more and not I can't see myself being with anyone else!

    Anyone know what's wrong with me ?:(


Comments

  • #2
    StillWaters
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,799 ✭✭✭StillWaters


    I think I know what is wrong with you, its called the human condition, and it is entirely natural.

    The first time your heart is broken is incredibly painful. I am more than twice your age, but still remember the loss of my first love with great clarity.

    You are doing the right things by not having contact with him, and getting on with your own life. Each day it will get easier, and you will love again, and meet many more men who will compare favourably.


  • #3
    seahorse
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,164 ✭✭✭seahorse


    You're heartbroken hun, that's what's wrong with you. Like the previous two posters said, this feeling doesn't last forever. I remember when I broke up with my bf when I was seventeen, I thought I'd never want to be with anyone else again. Today I'm so glad we broke up, because if we hadn't I wouldn't be with the man I'm with today, who I didn't meet till I was twenty-six.

    I know these stories aren't any more comforting to you than they'd have been to me then, which was not at all! - But please try to take something out of them, even if they don't make you feel better today, try to take from them at least that you will feel better one day, because believe me, you really will. (((hugs)))

    Seahorse


  • #4
    reillyer06
    Closed Accounts Posts: 37 ✭reillyer06


    I felt sad reading that.

    Dont worry, as much as it feels like you wont get over him you will indeed eventually. I took months to get over my ex, and now I'm friends with her and all the old feelings have gone away


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