WTF is that all about

kathy2

I met a guy 7 years ago, the first night I met him was amazing I thought we had brilliant chemistry and talked all night, huge physical attraction that seemed to be mutual. I was amazed when he didnt ring the next day and about a week later he did but that initiall wow factor had gone coz I just didnt get it. We had a few dates the s*x was great but it fizzled out and I moved on and met some one else.

I told him I wanted to get married and have children and that the clock was ticking for the crack then I cried and all pure silly acting but just to get rid of him it is supposed to send them running for the door but had the opposite effect. He called to my door a few times but its an apartment block so I could see it was him on the cctv and just didnt answer.

Now I am single again in the intermediate 7 years this guy has gone on texting me happy Christmas, happy Easter that kind of thing. I sent him an odd text back saying I was engaged stop texting me and then ignored them.
So at Christmas I am snowed in and bored out of my head and the texts come so I emailed and texted back all fun and a bit cheeky .
So I met him, we went for a few drinks again huge physical attraction bit of kissing and cuddling, chatting like old friends and I fully expected a call within an hour.
Nothing!! this guy has been texting and emailing me every day 8weeks. WTF!!
I wont be chasing him, and if he starts the emailing and texting again will probably ignore them!!

But WTF is that all about:eek:

Peggypeg

He sounds like a nutter to be honest. Best stay away from that one, either he doesn't know what the hell he wants or he just enjoys messing with you. Cut all contact, change your contact details if possible.

Barracudaincork

Maybe like you he was bored at xmas too and just met you for something to do etc

What is the issue? Do you want to be with him and your hurting he doesnt appear to feel the same? Or are you feeling rejected that he didnt contact you an hour after you met up? Im just trying to work out why you are saying WTF tbh.

ChocolateRamses

OP you sound like a sap.

You met, and had a connection with a guy, he didn't contact you for a week, and so you reacted like a child. You went on a few dates, but you couldn't get over your bruised ego so you started laying on the drama about wanting kids and your clock ticking, just to get rid of this guy.

If you honestly didn't want him communicating with you then you should never have responded to his texts, but of course you did, and what's worse is you started spinning some BS yarn to "get rid of him", except that you continued to keep texting him.

You sound like a fool OP, or someone who's incredibly childish at best.

Nevyn

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Oryx

I dont see why you're asking wtf he is all about when the two of you seem to be playing games. Do you want the guy or dont you? If you do, phone him and see whats up.

If you dont, then for gods sake delete his number and dont respond to him again. (And it sounds like you dont want him, you just want the attention and him dangling on a very long string... all this bs about scaring him off, and being engaged... wtf was that about? )

krudler

You sound just as bad as him tbh, leading him on when you had no interest

Miss Fluff

I met a guy 7 years ago, the first night I met him was amazing I thought we had brilliant chemistry and talked all night, huge physical attraction that seemed to be mutual. I was amazed when he didnt ring the next day

and about a week later he did but that initiall wow factor had gone coz I just didnt get it.

I told him I wanted to get married and have children and that the clock was ticking for the crack then I cried and all pure silly acting but just to get rid of him

So I met him, we went for a few drinks again huge physical attraction bit of kissing and cuddling, chatting like old friends and I fully expected a call within an hour.
Nothing!!

Reading the above do you not think that it would seem like you are coming across as ever so slightly high maintenance?

kathy2

I was engaged faithfull and happy during those 7 years, and dumpsville is not all its cracked up to be:mad: so be nice.

No calling me a sap!

SnoopyD

I'd just knock it on the head. Put it down to experience and move on to finding a healthier relationship or dating or whatever you are looking for after such a big break up