The Heartache does go away

LegacyUser

So we've all been dumped, felt heartbroken, missed our ex so much, would do anything for them to change their mind, texting, phoning...just prolonging our agony. Well that was me a few months ago. Dumped out of the blue.......couldn't understand why, sure he had talked about getting married etc. Thought I'd never get over him, God when I look back I was such a mess, and i'm mortified now when I think about texts I sent him and crying down the phone. We can all listen to advice about how it will get better but the hurt and pain just won't seem to go away will it? But everyone it does eventually. I thought I'd never get over him, was convinced we would end up back together. I eventually started to keep myself busy all the time, so stopped thinking about him so much and then one day I realised I hadn't contacted him in three weeks, he had tried to contact me in that time but I ignored his calls/texts. He called me last week and I felt I was able to take the call, was not surprised to hear him whinging on the phone about a lady he had got involved with and only realises now that he made a mistake and is having trouble ending things with her.....and I thought I was an emotional mess. I told him he dug his own hole and I'd prefer if he didn't contact me again. Was a civil conversation and I felt very proud of myself. What he does now or who he sees does not bother me one bit. So come girls/boys forget about that ex and start to think of number 1...YOU!

The Recliner

Locking this because there is no issue here, approved it because everybody needs a cheery up message now and again