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Am i reading it wrong

  • 16-02-2010 2:02am
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 415 ✭✭


    Really need advice here was going out with my gf for three years things werent great for a while and we had a fight one weekend . we ended up breaking up she saying she was not happy and so on .. this was three months ago she is a very strong minded girl . we kept in contact she txted me over xmas saying she was sorry how it ended and wanted to be friends.. i bumped into her on friday night in a nightclub when she seen me she came over and started talking, she was quite drunk and started telling me i was lokin well , was giving me hugs and a few random kisses on the cheek, then one little kis on the lips just before she left .. i dont know what to do as i cant get her out of my head now.. i am thinking maybe theres a chance she will take me back ?? or anm i reading it wrong .. maybe it was just because she was drunk?? anyone any ideas??


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 578 ✭✭✭Peggypeg


    Hey OP,

    You need to forget about what she wants and figure out what you want and why. Do you want her back because you had a great relationship and you miss it or do you mostly just feel lonely etc? If you don't want her back then cut all contact as seeing or speaking to her will just hold you back from moving on. If you want her back, then ask her outright, tell her you miss her and want to give it another go. If she wants to give it another go then that's great but if she says she doesn't then you're going to have to cut contact, otherwise everytime you see/speak to her you'll end up right back to being confused and it'll take forever to get over her. You need to look after yourself and do what's best for you. You've only told us a little bit but it sounds to me that she is missing you, talk to her and take it from there.

    Best of luck.


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