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Not sure what's going on

  • 13-02-2010 9:47pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    So to break it down - met a guy one night hung out a bit, kissed and he asked for my number. Texted me shortly after. Usual ice breaking banter and there's been a lot of contact since back and forth. He hasn't suggested actually getting together and doing something. Not really sure what's going on? Why keep in contact pretty much every day if he has no intention of actually meeting up? He initiated contact but after a lull I started things back up again so he obviously knows i'm interested. Any opinions?


Comments

  • #2
    Angus Og
    Closed Accounts Posts: 401 ✭✭Angus Og


    Maybe he's just like you, and wondering what's going on. Text him and tell him you'd like to meet again. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.


  • #3
    MaggieZ
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26 ✭MaggieZ


    Or there could be someone else on the scene. There actually could be loads of reasons that might not even have anything to do with you as such. If he's interested and he's free, you won't lose anything by asking him to meet up. if he flakes out - forget about him. Good luck!


  • #4
    theg81der
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,644 ✭✭✭theg81der


    If he`s interested in meeting up he`ll let you know by asking, if he hasn`t asked he`s not interested - no more complicated than that sorry.

    Stop texting him back in my book thats a no no, your far to busy etc...and certainly do not initiate contact EVER. Call me a sexist whatever I don`t care, i`ve never been dumped. I got my friends to hide my phone, pretended to be too busy, flirted with another guy in front of him, made sure I got lots of texts and calls when out with him etc to get my hubby and my ex boyfriends. Think about what attracts you to guys what keeps your attention? if they were all over you would you be bothered?


  • #5
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    So in the end he eventually suggested getting together for drinks and suggested next week and I said that sounded good then we went off tangent. So now while we agreed drinks next week haven't said anything about day or venue. Do I suggest day or wait for him to contact me about when we meet? Confused!


  • #6
    Mozart1986
    Closed Accounts Posts: 191 ✭✭Mozart1986


    Suggest something about two days before a day that suits you. If everything is ambiguous and up in the air then you've every reason to suit your own schedule and don't do it too far in advance either.


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