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was i unreasonable????

  • 13-02-2010 8:32pm
    #1
    scarymoon1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 732 ✭✭✭


    Ive eposted here before about a guy i met on the net as f***buddies. we got on great but as he was moving country it always had to end sometime. I asked him about 3-4 times if we were more than just f***buddies and if we werent i couldnt see him again, he always laughed saying irish women are so demanding etc - he always avoided answering. He asked me about 6-7 times would i go on holiday with him - in the end i said yes. lately he is busy and i havnt seen much of him so last wenesday i said if your not interested just say - he said be patient and that he was interested and liked me etc. I said ok - contact me when you have free time bla bla. So today i get a text saying as ive DEMANDED an answer from him, and as he's so busy he's an unrealiable f***buddy and he deosnt want to be someone who i get irritated with and i should see a more submissive guy than him!!! I got angry at this as ive always treated him with respect and yet he comes out with this bull****. I hav't heard from him since. Was i unreasonable asking to know if he liked me more than a f***buddy?? Why could he just not say he wasnt interested instead of all the above crap!!!!!


Comments

  • #2
    thinks too much
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 195 ✭✭thinks too much


    You were right to ask him especially if you felt that you thoiught of him as more that just your **** buddy. He could have dealt with the question in a more grown up way and you are better off getting rid of him. Even if he only viewed you as a **** buddy he could have treated you with a small bit more respect.


  • #3
    Angus Og
    Closed Accounts Posts: 401 ✭✭Angus Og


    He couldn't say because all he wanted was a person to have sex with. This is hard, but it seems obvious that you didn't mean much to him.

    Get on with your life and try to stay away from people who are only interested in you for sex. You sound like you are looking for a steady relationship, and these men won't have that for you.


  • #4
    MaggieZ
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26 ✭MaggieZ


    If I got a quid every time i heard ( or asked myself) " why couldn't he just say it", i'd be rich. The thing is,a lot of men would rather be burned alive than to admit that they are not that interested. That text was just him breaking it off and making it sound like you're the bad guy, so that he can justify it to himself. Forget him and move on.


  • #5
    theg81der
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,644 ✭✭✭theg81der


    He sounds like an idiot you had a lucky escape, do you really want someone like that to be interested in you?


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