Girl Problem

Icky Thump

Hey guys met this chick last weekend. she was amazing. she was hot. she was into sports and cool music and stuff. yet she even liked art and even computers. this girl was unbelievable. anyway went back to hers and well lets just say nothing was going to happen but lets also say that nothing did happen when the chance arose(or not in this case).........................

ive layed low since. was going to just put it down to a bad night but this chick is def worth the embarasment. she is easily an 8 without effort

Snowie

so for those who dont really get your rambelings? whats the problem//?

Icky Thump

what would you guys say to a girl who you couldnt get off? how do you fix something like that

star-pants

Do you mean you had issues yourself down there?
It could be anything from having a few drinks, to performance anxiety.

It's not uncommon and I wouldn't say the girl thinks any less of you. I'd just laugh it off. Lots of ways to have fun if certain aspects aren't working.

what happened after? How long has it been since you contacted her?
Just she's a girl you'd like to date, you need to let her know.

spinandscribble

So lets get this straight.

You guys meet, hit it off big time, go home together and due to a number of possible issues she doesn't orgasm (could be it doesn't happen easily for her, she needs more emotional interest, wasn't feeling good, you were nervous, she was nervous, she wasn't having a great day downstairs ect ect)

so you then "lay low"?

That girl is probably worried you don't even like her or feels like she did something wrong. Did you think about she might be feeling? I'm not trying to make you feel bad but you need to get your head out of your butt before you lose any chance you have left with the girl.

Icky Thump

yup twas my own issues. it has only happened to me once before when i was with my first GF. didnt think i had too much to drink. think i just started thinking while we where messing around. i dont even knopw what i was thinking about. it was kinda like i noticed a coffee cup and next my mind just starts wondering. then no matter what i do to try to stop drifting away i cant stop. its like when you cant sleep and you just lay in bed thinking of nothing............... i kinda left after that. was last weekend. ill prob just txt her or something casual. just an embarasing issue more than anything. guess the purpous of the posting here was to get any suggestions and to vent more than anything.

So you couldn't get it up essentially Not to worry I would imagine, time and place and all that.

Icky Thump

spinandscribble wrote: »

So lets get this straight.

You guys meet, hit it off big time, go home together and due to a number of possible issues she doesn't orgasm (could be it doesn't happen easily for her, she needs more emotional interest, wasn't feeling good, you were nervous, she was nervous, she wasn't having a great day downstairs ect ect)

so you then "lay low"?

That girl is probably worried you don't even like her or feels like she did something wrong. Did you think about she might be feeling? I'm not trying to make you feel bad but you need to get your head out of your butt before you lose any chance you have left with the girl.

well honestly i did txt her the next day just to see how she got on with work she had to do that morning. i didnt say that earlier because i just didnt wanna get replies saying she aint interested and such. havent heard from her since i guess it may be a complete fail on my behalf but im not ready to give up on her.

Icky Thump

RoverJames wrote: »

So you couldn't get it up essentially Not to worry I would imagine, time and place and all that.

yup:( or not yup, ydown i should say........................

dam wondering mind. attention span of a fish

monkeypants

Give her a call dude!

Icky Thump

yea think i will. at least one call is better than 10 txt messages:D dont wanna start being "that guy":D

the_syco

Icky Thump wrote: »

i guess it may be a complete fail on my behalf but im not ready to give up on her.

Well, if your little man didn't stand to attention at the correct time, she may think you're not attracted to her. It's valentines on Sunday. This means you have one day to get the finger out, and give her a call. Not a f**king text, a call. Texts can be ignored. Call her, and ask her out to the cinema or something.

Oh, and next time your mind start wondering, look at her assets, and let your mind, hands, etc, wander all over them

Icky Thump

the_syco wrote: »

Well, if your little man didn't stand to attention at the correct time, she may think you're not attracted to her. It's valentines on Sunday. This means you have one day to get the finger out, and give her a call. Not a f**king text, a call. Texts can be ignored. Call her, and ask her out to the cinema or something.

Oh, and next time your mind start wondering, look at her assets, and let your mind, hands, etc, wander all over them

:Dthanks for the advice. thanks everyone. think im a little more at ease with the pending call. well here goes nothing. thanks again

Icky Thump

ah thats a relief..............................

rang her. no answer

rang again. no answer

waited an hour

rang again and no answer:eek:

dam!!!!!!! guess either there is no interest or else there is a real reason she didnt answer. guess all i can do now is sit back and leave it and if she dont get back to me next week ill send her an innocent message to see how shes getting on.

see women................. do you see................ the pressure that we get under if we cant get it up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:rolleyes: if i didnt like my penius so much id throw it out:D

Icky Thump

she was in touch......................... its not good. not good at all. in fact its the worst WORST case scenario. she's going back to the ex. she still has feelings for them.................................... its another girl.




as if i dont have enough competition as it is:rolleyes:


anyway thanks for the help everyone

epgc3fyqirnbsx

keep in touch, you might come in handy yet

Mr. Presentable

Icky Thump wrote: »

she was in touch......................... its not good. not good at all. in fact its the worst WORST case scenario. she's going back to the ex. she still has feelings for them.................................... its another girl.




as if i dont have enough competition as it is:rolleyes:


anyway thanks for the help everyone

Bet you are glad you didn't start this thread in AH then

Icky Thump

Gordon Moldy Bottle wrote: »

keep in touch, you might come in handy yet

something tells me this wont be my last post on such a topic

Icky Thump

nipplenuts wrote: »

Bet you are glad you didn't start this thread in AH then

at least now i have an excuse for the "problem" i was having:D obviously my subconcious said something was off.................:D

Otis Driftwood

Meh,I wouldnt stress about not been able to get it up,the vast majority of blokes have had it happen or that you go limp in the middle of proceedings.The worst thing you can do is get embarrassed,if it happens in future laugh it off and dont make a big deal about it.

Just on you trying to get in touch with her,calling her 3 times in a short space of time is huge no no.Women smell desperation and that reeks of it.My best mate is a fecker for coming on too strong and has gotten binned 3 times in the last year or so for that exact reason.

Call once and if she doesnt answer do not call again.If she wants to speak with you she will ring back,otherwise chalk it down to experience and move on.

Snowie

Icky Thump wrote: »

what would you guys say to a girl who you couldnt get off? how do you fix something like that

I'd just simply say to my self "I had my fun and thats all that, matters" :pac:

serosuly tho putting pressure on your self to bring her to new heights....of wooo woo woo.....would kinda taket he enjoyment out off it, better of getting her fires burning...... all the more...;)