confused..

cheesey1

confused
the usual boyfriend and I broke up - he still had the key to my house so I asked him to drop it back to me as it wasn't the fact that I wanted the key back it was what it represented I had given it to him as a token of my trust to allow him to come and go as he pleased, also the longer he had the key the longer it was taking me to move on and I told him this so he dropped it back to me and texted to say got it thanks and we exchanged a few texts then I had decided enough was enough wasn't going to contact him again it was hard for the next few days but then out of the blue I got a text from him and of course replied and the same thing has started again now I don't know if he realised what he is missing or what and should I can't pluck up the courage to ask him even thought I am crying all them time thinking about him.

Peggypeg

Hey OP,

First of all big big big hug. I'm sorry that you're so upset, that's a pants way to be feeling.

Now with regards to your problem. Why did you break up? Is it definately over or was it more of a "it's not really working" thing? If it's that it was just gone a bit stale then there is a good chance he is missing you and wants you back. On the other hand if it was on the cards for ages or one of you did something awful then I would say keep away.

The best outcome for you at the moment is to know where you stand, if you don't know then ask him. Tell him that unless you are going to get back together then you are going to have no contact with him whatsoever. You can see yourself how much the contact is setting you back if you can't stop crying, you poor chickie.

I hope you feel better soon OP.

Peggypeg

Hey OP,

Just wanted to let you know that your problem was posted as a reponse on someone else's thread, the one asking should he text a girl he likes. You must have posted it accidentally. Anywho, just wanted to let you know.

P.