Stuck in my head

LegacyUser

I've always had a thing for a girl I went to school with. We were and still are friends. I had wanted to ask her to the debs but she was in a relationship at that stage and she seemed happy so I left it at that. We both went to different colleges and I hadn't seen her out in about 6 months till earlier this year. I happened to meet her and a few others from school in a pub. As we were in a group I didn't really try anything. I'm basically not sure if she's interested in me or not. I really like her and haven't been able to stop thinking about her since that night. She made a nice comment or two about me, nothing you wouldn't say too a friend though. We then went to a club after that with the rest of the group. We danced for a bit and at this stage I was mad about her but for some completely stupid reason I never asked her was she in a relationship or if I could have her no. I don't know why I didn't but I've been regretting it ever since. The only way I have of contacting her is via. Facebook and tbh I think asking her out or looking for her no. over Facebook would be a little lame :rolleyes: I know where she lives (that sounds really creepy, doesn't it ??) and I know the rest of her family. I don't think she's in a relationship with anyone but she's a very attractive and wonderful girl and I'm afraid someone else will get there claws in before me
I'm a little afraid of getting stuck in the friend zone but we're not very close friends obviously as I don't even have her number !
I'd really like to ask her out but how should I go about ?? Also I'm just not sure if she likes me, she's the kind of person that's nice to everyone.

I_am_Jebus

Hi,

I can't really advise you on what she may think about you or wheather you are in the "friendzone" etc... nothing really in your post that would say one way or another.

In regards contacting her... Why is contacting her via facebook lame? If it's your only way of contacting her then why not? Why not send her a private mail. Say hello, maybe say it was great being out with her the other night etc... and see what kind of response you get.

Don't be afraid to ask her out. She'll either say yes or no. At least you'll know where you stand then. Nothing to lost to be perfectly honest.

LegacyUser

Thanks for the advice. I'll give Facebook a go, as you said yourself, I've got nothing to lose...

I_am_Jebus

stuckinmyhead wrote: »

Thanks for the advice. I'll give Facebook a go, as you said yourself, I've got nothing to lose...

Good for you.

Whatever happens you won't regret it in the long-term.

Best of luck with it.

I hope it turns out the way you want it to.

Jebus.