Where to go from here?

LegacyUser

ok, not really sure were to go from here, not sure what to make of this situation....

girl in work i got to know a few months ago, liked her but never see her around work. we both were in a sports club organised by work when i got to know her, so would email each other about that at the time. once the club finished up we still emailed for a while after. got on well and had a laugh. i was wary of falling into the friend zone so didnt email or get too matey as i have fallen into that trap a couple of times before. kinda decided i'd just wait to see her on a work night out or something so hadn't really seen or spoke to her for the last couple of months.

so anyway out at a big work do on friday night. hadnt seen the girl but was keeping an eye out for her. near the end of the night i get a tap on the shoulder and its her. says she had tried to say hello a couple of times over the night but i hadnt seen her. general chitchat for a few minutes and then she says she has to go cause her friends are waiting on her. she asks me for my phone and puts her number in it and says where her and her friends are heading after and then she is gone.

couldn't get any of my mates to go to same place and didnt want to head on my own so left it for friday night. txt her today saying hi. her text back was the usual "hello, ye had a great night etc..." but there was no question back. i replied just saying "i ended up here, good night blah blah blah..." but didnt ask anything back...and that was it. end of txts!!

dunno what to make of it, i do like the girl and would like to go out and see how it goes, her txt today, or lack of it doesnt inspire me with confidence though. i know this all a bit trivial to be honest, feel a bit silly even typing it. like i say though, i am interested. dunno where to go from here, i suppose i could txt again but i think if she was a bit interested she would have made a bit more of an effort to have conversation today? what would you do?

Angus Og

Either follow up with a question (encourage interaction) or a statement of intent (I want to see you!). You like her, so don't give up yet.

LegacyUser

way i read it......she came over out of nowhere and asked for my number.....so would suggest to me she was interested.....could be wrong though, maybe just meant it as a mate....

but her response today and i suppose her previous emails when i think about it was a bit closed off, didnt leave much room to open up a conversation......which wouldnt be a good sign in my book....

so how to contact her again without seeming like a desperado.....i'm not sure........

why is it always the ones you like who ye end up thinking about these things too much, hahaha!!!

Angus Og

You could ask her out, plain and simple. She came looking for you don't forget. The least you can do is return the favour. She's must have looked like a desperado when she tapped you on the shoulder.