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I dunno what to do anymore!!

  • 07-02-2010 8:47pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Ok so the story goes, I met a girl online last year and we were going out together for 7months, from the night we met we hit it off straight away and talked for hours and had great chemistry .But we broke up about 4 months. It was a bad break up mainly because of my stupidity but things werent going great between us anyway. We were rowing over the smallest things nearly on a daily basis so I decided a break was what we needed but she took it badly and we broke up completely. When things settled down we agreed we would stay friends and all that craic.

    Anyway, a few weeks after we broke up I kissed another girl while out and my ex found out about it. The kiss was completely a rebound thing! Needless to say she wasnt happy and I cant really blame her. We ended up sending some very hurtful emails too each other and now she basicly hates me. I never wanted to hurt her and of course anything I sent in the emails was just the heat of the moment stuff and didnt mean any of it but some of the stuff she sent me was very hurtful too. Anyway the fact is Im still crazy about her, I think about her everyday. I thought that by this stage i would be over her but if anything its getting worse.

    Im going out of my head here. im just wondering if anyone has tips or anything to help me slowly forget about her?? thanks for taking the time to read this


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  • #2
    hollis12
    Closed Accounts Posts: 176 ✭✭hollis12


    idunnoanymore wrote: »
    Ok so the story goes, I met a girl online last year and we were going out together for 7months, from the night we met we hit it off straight away and talked for hours and had great chemistry .But we broke up about 4 months. It was a bad break up mainly because of my stupidity but things werent going great between us anyway. We were rowing over the smallest things nearly on a daily basis so I decided a break was what we needed but she took it badly and we broke up completely. When things settled down we agreed we would stay friends and all that craic.

    Anyway, a few weeks after we broke up I kissed another girl while out and my ex found out about it. The kiss was completely a rebound thing! Needless to say she wasnt happy and I cant really blame her. We ended up sending some very hurtful emails too each other and now she basicly hates me. I never wanted to hurt her and of course anything I sent in the emails was just the heat of the moment stuff and didnt mean any of it but some of the stuff she sent me was very hurtful too. Anyway the fact is Im still crazy about her, I think about her everyday. I thought that by this stage i would be over her but if anything its getting worse.

    Im going out of my head here. im just wondering if anyone has tips or anything to help me slowly forget about her?? thanks for taking the time to read this

    wait if you broke up and was still crazy about her did you even try and get her back or did you think you could keep her on the backburner?


  • #3
    Tchaikovsky
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,185 ✭✭✭Tchaikovsky


    Well you had broken up with her when you kissed this other girl, so you had no obligation to your ex. If this is a reflection of who she is then I'm sorry buddy, but you're better off without her... 7 months and it didn't work out, no biggy.


  • #4
    Irishboy29
    Closed Accounts Posts: 34 ✭Irishboy29


    You were on a break.

    If she wanted you she shoulda put a ring on it;)

    You need to kiss another girl and then see if you feel the same way.My guess is that you won't.

    A wise person once said the best way to get over somebody is to get under somebody else.


  • #5
    fairycakes
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 201 ✭✭fairycakes


    Hi OP

    Sorry I don't agree with the other replies. Your still in love with her and its wrecking your head my advice is get writing an email or letter to her and lay it on the line be honest and tell her how you feel. I suspect this girl got upset because she is feeling the same way about you and was hurt. If you do love her then do something about it or you might always regret it and lifes too short for that, do what feels right..

    Hope I haven't confused you even more just trying to help!x


  • #6
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    hey op here! thanks everyone for the replies. to fairycakes, i would send her a letter r something but to be honest some of the stuff she said to me really hurt! thats why i dont think we could have a future together but i for some reason i cant explain i still have strong feelings for her!!

    I have been with a girl since and while i didnt have sex, we did get fairly intimate but i still feel the same about my ex and its wrecking my head!! I really dont want to have feelings for her. thanks again everyone


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