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What's his problem?

  • 02-02-2010 6:33pm
    #1
    Mozzeltoff
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,614 ✭✭✭


    hey..this is my first time posting in this thread but I think I have the right one..need some advice on this.

    I have been friends with a guy for the last two odd years.For the first 6 months of knowing him we were actually a couple.But we both decided that it was best we just stay as mutual friends.He soon became a big part in my own group of friends and he slowly turned out to be a best friend to me.The two of us are very close but I think this maybe a problem.

    Every so often my friend seems to go into a "mood".He's grand towards everyone else and engages in conversation with other people as if nothing is wrong.But if I open my mouth or say anything he snaps at me or makes me look like a fool.Right now we aren't speaking at the minute but it's tearing me apart that we are acting so juvenile towards each other.This isn't the first time this has happened and we have made up in the past.Usually it's over something stupid or a misunderstanding but this time around I can't put my finger on what's wrong or why he's acting so!I love the guy to bits and he's a very close friend who I trust and adore.But if he's going to act like this I don't know if I could ever stay friends with him and the last thing I want to do is lose him.


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  • #2
    princess-lala
    Closed Accounts Posts: 30,731 ✭✭✭✭princess-lala


    From what your saying this guy still obviously still has feelings for you, either way you need to sit him down and tell him whats bothering you.


  • #3
    Mozzeltoff
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,614 ✭✭✭Mozzeltoff


    I was afraid of that answer.:(I love him to bits like I said.I was still mad about him a year or so ago but if the subject ever came about how we felt about each other he would always say it was the past and I should forget about it.I kinda had to in the end.This isn't the first time this has happened and I have cried more tears and ranted at him so much..he knows how much it hurts me every time he does this and yet he still does it!:(

    And another problem that I forgot to mention is this.I told my mother about this(I am very close to her).She said that it's the exact same thing my father did to her when he was bad with his depression.He would talk to everyone else,have a laugh with everyone else but treat my mother like she was an idiot.I am starting to wonder now..maybe my friend has depression..


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