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How to start a relationship without awkwardly asking her out american teen movie styl

  • 31-01-2010 9:09pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Lots of people say "just ask" but that has lots of risks and not to mention the awkwardness of saying it to her face or texting her

    I have lots of female friends and i think i'm good with the ladies but Ive seen round college lots of people pairing up and thats what I want I just feel its so hard to get. I know its not! We are all the same, subconciously insecure teenagers but there must be something missing?

    I am good friends with this girl i like, she knows i like her, i hang around with her a bit, text her a bit, i was even with her last weekend on a night out...but i dont know where to go from here

    For people who are in relationships how did u start it? This, for me, seems the hardest hurdle to jump right now.


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  • #2
    opinion guy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 11,001 ✭✭✭✭opinion guy


    ulovindeeznuts wrote: »
    that has lots of risks
    It does ? Really ? What might they be ?
    i was even with her last weekend on a night out...but i dont know where to go from here

    so game on, no ? Just call her and ask her for coffee or movie or something. you are making too much of a production of this. Stop thinking up excuses and call/txt her before she gets annoyed that you ahvne't called since you were with her. just relax


  • #3
    Contessa Raven
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 642 ✭✭✭Contessa Raven


    OK this might sound a bit mad but the only way you'll get into a relationship is by asking!

    I've been with my OH almost 3 years. I fancied him for ages and I flirted with him for a few weeks, then we went out with friends on my birthday and we kissed and then we met up for a couple of dates and then he asked me out to make it official.

    If you want to take an easy approach maybe try asking if she'd like to go see a movie or something and if she agrees you'll know she's interested. Then you can ask her out officially after a date or two! :)


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