Finding a girl

phillipo · 31-01-2010 5:19pm #1

I met a stunnin girl last week in a club and I'm certain she liked me but for certain reasons we had to part ways and I never got her contact details. I did get a lot of info from her that would be useful for finding her but I'm afraid it might seem a bit stalkerish to use it and just show up. What do people think?

Jules · 31-01-2010 5:30pm

moved from tLL.

LegacyUser · 31-01-2010 5:35pm

you should try to contact her or you'll be thinking what if? you have nothing to lose.

Fajitas! · 31-01-2010 5:36pm

Er, personally, yeah, I would see it as rather stalkerish.

It depends what the information was I suppose.

Snowie · 31-01-2010 5:42pm

Fajitas! wrote: »

Er, personally, yeah, I would see it as rather stalkerish.

It depends what the information was I suppose.

Oh come on he doesnt even no her well enough to stalk.....
It's no odd and not but not crazy... it might make him look good going to a bit of effort ?

How many times have you, meet a girl and not gotten her number and been kicking your self...?

opinion guy · 31-01-2010 6:02pm

Um you are being a bit vague here really so I don't know what advice you can expect to receive. Are we talking about you know where she lives for example and plan on showing up OR do you know she plans to go to a particular night out or something ? Theres a BIG difference!

LegacyUser · 31-01-2010 6:36pm

I presume you have her name, check if shes on facebook, add her as a friend. if she accepts, send her a comment or mail.

phillipo · 31-01-2010 6:39pm

Don't know where she lives, definitely wouldn't show up at her house anyway. I know wat college/classes she's in and i have to go to that college this week so I was plannin on 'happening upon her'.

Zaph · 31-01-2010 7:46pm

OP, I've merged this thread with your thread from The Gentlemens' Club. Posting in one forum is sufficient, please don't start the same thread in different forums again.

opinion guy · 31-01-2010 7:57pm

phillipo wrote: »

Don't know where she lives, definitely wouldn't show up at her house anyway.

Good to know

I know wat college/classes she's in and i have to go to that college this week so I was plannin on 'happening upon her'.

Hmmm I don't know. I wouldn't try too hard or go too far out of your way. She might be very surprised if not expecting you and she gets the feeling like you went out of your way to meet her. I'm inclined to think just go about your business, have a coffee or lunch or whatever. and if you bump into her great! if not oh well and next time you get a number. if you go searching the corridors or showing up in her class well I'm inclined to think you are getting a little weird

LegacyUser · 31-01-2010 8:01pm

Grow a pair and do it.

A guy sought me out like that one time and of course I was delighted. Unless she's very immature, she will be impressed on some level. And if she's not into you, you've lost nothing anyway.

G86 · 31-01-2010 8:11pm

If she's interested she'll think it's romantic, if she's not interested she'll class you as a stalker.

Go for it, what have you got to lose

globemaster1986 · 31-01-2010 11:33pm

I say go for it OP, it shows you're interested in her!

Dublin Chick · 03-02-2010 3:04pm

Do it for sure I would be happy to have someone stalk me

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