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Don't want another broken heart!

  • 28-01-2010 10:15am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi, Ive been reading this forum recently and found alot of the advice given makes alot of sense. So I thought Id throw my situation out there to see what ye think.

    For backrounds sake a couple of years ago I fell madly for a girl. We weren't with eachother for that long but it was great while it lasted. Then she lost her job and had to move home (other side of the country. She decided there was no point in continuing and was not for talking around. When it came down to it she wasn't as much into me as I was to her. This really cut me up and took me a t least 3 months to get back to any sense of normality. Infact i still think of her alot altough Im over it now.

    Now to the present, recently started seeing a girl, fantastic person, loads in common, have great fun on mad nights out aswell as really enjoying just hanging out watching a movie or whatever. Thing is she is presently unemployed. Just back from travelling around the world and finding it difficult as many are to get any sort of job in her field in this country. It was mentioned at the weekend that she is going to start looking for a job in the UK......In the back of my mind I was freaked a little, but obviously didn't say anything we've only been seing eachother for a month or so, so its not my place, not that id attempt to stand in her way in any event its just im thinking.....NOT AGAIN!!!

    Im starting to think I should cool things off, I don't want to and I really like her but Im afraid of getting into a similar position as last time out..

    Am i being irrational here? or overly cautious? There is no gaurantee she'll go anywhere, she would prefer to stay in Ireland but the way things are going..

    Man resessions suck....Ive been lucky work and money wise but the economy is playing havoc with my love life, Kind of ironic!!


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  • #2
    ManOfMystery
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,394 ✭✭✭ManOfMystery


    I would just simply ask her how things will stand between you both if she does move to the UK. There's no harm in asking.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Thanks, but on the contrary given that we have only being "seeing" eachother a month or so and nothing has been said re. are we in a relationship, I think a question such as this could do harm...I mean if the move was definite sure, why not. but at this stage it is only an idea..Maybe a coulple months down the line, but by then I can see myself having fallen for her so it may be a bit late for the self preservation thing.


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