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Falling out of love?

  • 27-01-2010 10:24pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I've been in my first serious relationship for the past six months. Over the past month or so we've been practically living together and it was great until now.

    I dont know what happened but last weekend I just looked at him and didnt feel the same about him at all. Everything about him seems to be annoying me and I'm quite happy to be away from him, where before I'd really miss him if we were apart. I've been trying to get back to where I was but I just cant seem to get the feelings back.

    Is it possible to just fall out of love with somebody overnight for absolutely no reason, or is this just a temporary blip?


Comments

  • #2
    dsmythy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,528 ✭✭✭✭dsmythy


    Happens all the time hence the whole "i don't get how they just broke up with me. Everything was grand". Try working on it for a bit longer maybe and try get him involved in the effort. If it's still not working after a while then that may be the end.


  • #3
    mobilecore
    Closed Accounts Posts: 140 ✭✭mobilecore


    Sadly only you know if you want to end it or realise its just a patch your going through.

    All that I can say is if you do decide to break it up with him. Be honest. Say that your feelings have changed. He probably has feelings for you, its best to be honest and let him go gently. In a situation like that you're always going to break someones heart but how you do it will be the deciding factor :)

    like you say some things he does is now annoying you. the last thing you should do is to have a fight over one of those things and find that as a way to get out of the relationship.

    I say give it a few days and if you're feeing the same or its already been a few days talk to him. Its the respectful thing to do. You've had 6 months with him, i imagine they were 6 good months since only now you're thinking about not being with him. By having this conversation you might bring about the end in a respectful, mature way (hopefully without name calling or that much of feelings broken) .... or, you might realise that you dont want to let him go. Uttering those words "its over" to someone might sound like what you want, but actually saying that might make you realise thats not what your heart wants.

    either way. by talking to him its the best course of action.


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