claiming for expenses while child in hospital

tiredmum

I need to know if i can claim back money spent during the time my child was hospitalised. We received no financial help when my child was rushed for an emergency operation in Dublin, which is about 180km from where we live. We spent 7 days in hospital and had to buy our own food and pay for the accomodation in the hospital. Would we be able to claim back the money we spent? We are both unemployed and are financially up the pole. If we can, where do we go for help?

Hi Tiredmum

You should approach your local community welfare officer and apply for an Exceptional needs Grant.

The purpose of an Exceptional Needs Grant is to help you with "unforseen large expenses" and is a once-off, discretionary payment, (not an entitlement), each case is dealt with on its own merits.

If you explain the circumstances to the CWO, they may recoup some of the expenses you had to pay back to you.

tiredmum

Thank you very much for your response. I went to see comm.welfare officer and she gave me back some of the money we spent. It was a surprise as they don't always help you after the event. Thanks once again.

Master Bates

tiredmum wrote: »

Thank you very much for your response. I went to see comm.welfare officer and she gave me back some of the money we spent. It was a surprise as they don't always help you after the event. Thanks once again.

Surely the most important thing here is the welfare of your baby?

Money pails in comparison -- don't you forget that!

GerardKeating

Master Bates wrote: »

Surely the most important thing here is the welfare of your baby?

Money pails in comparison -- don't you forget that!

but is the money not important to buy the baby the little luxuries in life life nappies, food and clothes.

Master Bates

Obviously. It's just surprising she failed to mention her baby; after all, that's all that really matters.:rolleyes:

Balagan

Master Bates wrote: »

Obviously. It's just surprising she failed to mention her baby; after all, that's all that really matters.:rolleyes:

Go troll somewhere else.

Joey the lips

Master Bates wrote: »

Surely the most important thing here is the welfare of your baby?

Money pails in comparison -- don't you forget that!

Master Bates wrote: »

Obviously. It's just surprising she failed to mention her baby; after all, that's all that really matters.:rolleyes:

Someone who has never been in this position obviously. I am guessing you see this as a chance to attack someone on benefit without understanding the reasons. I sincerly hope you are never in the same position. If she traveled to the hospital she was taking care of the child.

OP you can approch the cwo as discussed. If you still find yourself short you can approach the st vincent de paul. If its going to be an on going situation you can also get help with accomadation while in dublin. The hospitals usually provide some if booked in advance.

They help in circumstances like this.

tiredmum

I wish to thank those who understand the situation I was in. I did not for a moment forget about my child. We have never been in this kind of traumatic situation, and yes, it does seem to some that money was all I wanted. The fact of the matter is that the money we spent at the hospital was her child-benefit money. It seems selfish of me, but we had no money of our own when the situation arose. We had spent the dole money on paying our rent and other day to day essentials. Also, our car decided to breakdown, putting more pressure on us. I had to drive to the hospital on my own, while my husband had to go with my baby in the ambulance. The hospital is 180km away from where we live. Thankfully my daugher is well on the road to recovery. We did get back some money from the social welfare, which helped to pay for the heating oil which we had run out of while in hospital. I never ask the social welfare for anything. I believe that there are people out there who need it more than we do. I save as much as I can to pay for what we need. I have never asked anyone for anything. All I wanted back was money to keep my children warm. Hope I did not offend someone...again

January

tiredmum, don't waste your time trying to justify you needing money to trolls on this board.

Hope your daughter recovers well.

tiredmum

Thanks Adrienne...My little one is like a spring...can't stop jumping on chairs and tables...she keeps her sister and us on our toes...just trying to get her to sit still, which is impossible..guess kids forget much quicker than adults...thankfully!!

Master Bates

tiredmum wrote: »

Thanks Adrienne...My little one is like a spring...can't stop jumping on chairs and tables...she keeps her sister and us on our toes...just trying to get her to sit still, which is impossible..guess kids forget much quicker than adults...thankfully!!

I'm pleased to hear your daughter is recovering well.

Regarding her hyperactivity: perhaps she has too much sugar in her diet? I would eradicate any sugary cereals and snacks etc etc...

I'm glad you're now focusing on the child as opposed to the finances.

dudara

Master Bates

Please display some sensitivity and tact when posting. This poster asked for specific information and does not need someone making smart comments.

I will let the forum moderator decide what course of action to take with you but in the meantime, if you continue to post in this vein, I will take action

dudara

tiredmum

dudara wrote: »

Master Bates

Please display some sensitivity and tact when posting. This poster asked for specific information and does not need someone making smart comments.

I will let the forum moderator decide what course of action to take with you but in the meantime, if you continue to post in this vein, I will take action

dudara

The saying 'ignorance is bliss' seems to apply to Master Bates. Thanks to all who gave positive imput and well wishes. Its a sad day when supposedly 'mature' adults throw their toys out of the cot and take their ignorance out on innocent people wanting help. Thanks again everyone. Much appreciated. p.s/ my daughter hates sweet things...give her spuds and gravy any day!!!

cee_jay

Master Bates wrote: »

I'm pleased to hear your daughter is recovering well.

Regarding her hyperactivity: perhaps she has too much sugar in her diet? I would eradicate any sugary cereals and snacks etc etc...

I'm glad you're now focusing on the child as opposed to the finances.

Master Bates infracted.

Joey the lips

tiredmum wrote: »

The saying 'ignorance is bliss' seems to apply to Master Bates. Thanks to all who gave positive imput and well wishes. Its a sad day when supposedly 'mature' adults throw their toys out of the cot and take their ignorance out on innocent people wanting help. Thanks again everyone. Much appreciated. p.s/ my daughter hates sweet things...give her spuds and gravy any day!!!

My child is the same. I chop carrots up and he eats them whilst travelling

Master Bates

I think people have taken my comments out of context, for which I apologise profusely.

Initially, I was somewhat suspicious of Tiredmum; as, I tend to question the integrity of Social Welfare families( IE, families with more than one child who rely on SW).

Now I get the impression that TM is doing the best she can, which I applaud.

Keep it up!

tiredmum

I am glad to know that Master Bates finally realises that not all of us want to take the system for a ride. Your apology is accepted. Thanks for the well wishes...

cee_jay

Master Bates wrote: »

I think people have taken my comments out of context, for which I apologise profusely.

Initially, I was somewhat suspicious of Tiredmum; as, I tend to question the integrity of Social Welfare families( IE, families with more than one child who rely on SW).

Now I get the impression that TM is doing the best she can, which I applaud.

Keep it up!

Questioning the integrity of these so called "Social Welfare families" is not tolerated on this forum.

Master Bates

cAr0l wrote: »

Questioning the integrity of these so called "Social Welfare families" is not tolerated on this forum.

All I meant by this was that, initially, TM only inquired about financial matters as opposed to her child's welfare; which is omnipresent in Welfare families who care more about monetary gain than their childrens welfare.

TM has however, shown -- however belatedly -- that she does care for her children, so as far as I'm concerned, this matter is closed.

we'llallhavetea_old

Master Bates wrote: »

All I meant by this was that, initially, TM only inquired about financial matters as opposed to her child's welfare; which is omnipresent in Welfare families who care more about monetary gain than their childrens welfare.

TM has however, shown -- however belatedly -- that she does care for her children, so as far as I'm concerned, this matter is closed.

this is the STATE BENEFITS FORUM, not parenting. :mad:

Nehaxak

Master Bates wrote: »

... which is omnipresent in Welfare families who care more about monetary gain than their childrens welfare.

According to some of your own posts elsewhere on Boards, you yourself are not even from this country yet are and have been content (and blabbering all about it on one of the Uni forums here) to take grants for your education from the Irish state to pay your way through college for the last number of years - and you dare to question a mother who is clearly in need of help and asking for some guidance as to what she might be entitled too ?

The rest of your post, as with ALL your posts are just trolling. It's pathetic and sad carry-on and I actually feel sorry for you.

blossom180

Nehaxak wrote: »

According to some of your own posts elsewhere on Boards, you yourself are not even from this country yet are and have been content (and blabbering all about it on one of the Uni forums here) to take grants for your education from the Irish state to pay your way through college for the last number of years - and you dare to question a mother who is clearly in need of help and asking for some guidance as to what she might be entitled too ?

The rest of your post, as with ALL your posts are just trolling. It's pathetic and sad carry-on and I actually feel sorry for you.

agree with you 100% nehaxak.

blossom180

tiredmum wrote: »

Thanks Adrienne...My little one is like a spring...can't stop jumping on chairs and tables...she keeps her sister and us on our toes...just trying to get her to sit still, which is impossible..guess kids forget much quicker than adults...thankfully!!

delighted to know your daughter is back to herself.best wishes to you and your family.

Joey the lips

Nehaxak wrote: »

According to some of your own posts elsewhere on Boards, you yourself are not even from this country yet are and have been content (and blabbering all about it on one of the Uni forums here) to take grants for your education from the Irish state to pay your way through college for the last number of years - and you dare to question a mother who is clearly in need of help and asking for some guidance as to what she might be entitled too ?

The rest of your post, as with ALL your posts are just trolling. It's pathetic and sad carry-on and I actually feel sorry for you.

I dont think he gets that. i reckon all will change in a few years IF he has his own kids.

tiredmum

I am really grateful to those out there willing to go to war for me with Master Bates. I think the man has learnt his lesson. I hope he will not be making any more snide or unpleasant remarks in the future. He obviously does not realise the amount of people on this board who actually are there to help others and fight for their rights.
My little 22 month old daughter, her 3(and a half year old) sister, my husband and I thank you all so much for all the encouragement.
p.s..Master Bates...I am now going to be saving up for my tv license...I buy 12 euro worth of stamps a week...is that ok with you?(no offense intended)...

cee_jay

tiredmum wrote: »

I am really grateful to those out there willing to go to war for me with Master Bates. I think the man has learnt his lesson. I hope he will not be making any more snide or unpleasant remarks in the future. He obviously does not realise the amount of people on this board who actually are there to help others and fight for their rights.
My little 22 month old daughter, her 3(and a half year old) sister, my husband and I thank you all so much for all the encouragement.
p.s..Master Bates...I am now going to be saving up for my tv license...I buy 12 euro worth of stamps a week...is that ok with you?(no offense intended)...

TiredMum this thread has gone completely off track, and your original query has been answered and sorted, thread closed.