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LegacyUser

ive noticed that any girl ive ever been with (about 10 in total) that i ave never came unless i finished the job myself. this is the same when receiving BJs aswell. is this normal? or should i be a little concerned?

Wibbs

Ok folks let's keep this as PG as possible. Thanks.

unattendedbag

Doesnt sound like a problem since you said your able to finish the job yourself. More like a matter of not being turned on enough to reach climax during the act. Have you tried doing other things that make it feel better for you? and do you try to concentrate on having sex like you would see in a porn film? This is often where most young ppl go wrong with their expectations.

Wibbs

Common enough thing actually. At times I've been similar, especially with condoms. Through the oral route? For me anyway, rare enough to finish.

amazingemmet

Maybe your not really into women?

cafecolour

Yeah, pretty common. Often it comes from a life time of **** in the exact same way (ie same pressure/speed every time). Your dick is essentially programmed only to the way you're used to doing it.

Lay of **** for a while. When you do do it, intentionally change up the tempo/pressure so that you get yourself used to variety again.

extra-ordinary_

unattendedbag wrote: »

... Have you tried doing other things that make it feel better for you?...

+1

When you're having sex, just do whatever is necessary to make yourself come.


Don't think I've ever come from oral.

Aibreann

one of friend's bf has the same problem ...oops, hope she's not seeing my post...but is this a common problem?

LegacyUser

yes i am only into women. i was thinking maybe its due to the fact that there is only one girl i really fancy and compare everyone else to her. Unfortunately we are very close friends and i dont think id ever be able to score her.She is the most beautiful girl ive ever seen!! Although i am considered a good looking chap, she is way out of my league

mobilecore

its, as said above, **** (to be so crude)

when you're used to "pleasuring yourself" the vagina will not create the same sensation. in fact, by laying off masterbation for a while you will be able to "arrive" no problem. even enjoy sex more.

the only sad thing tho is when your single you dont know when the next time you will have sex usually :P But still, i say go without materbating until the next time you have sex then see what happens Even if this is the only time you will do so. Try it and see how much will improve.