What would ya do?

jared86

Oh goodness this is embarrassing but hey it's boards so I'll give it a shot There's a girl I met about 2 months ago, a friend of friends, and she seemed keen for something. She initiated conversation as I didn't have a clue who she was and she told mutual friends she was interested. I see her regularly at the local on weekends and 2 weeks ago I finally pulled her over on the dancefloor and got her number. Nothing ah physical, it was hard enough to ask for the damn number. Anywho I've text her a couple of times, sometimes she replies, and sometimes she doesn't. I make an effort to try and move closer to where she is, as you do, but she's always in a group of friends and doesn't make herself available for a chat. Her friends say she's a tough cookie to crack but she's a nice girl. She's confident and out there with her friends but very shy with anyone else. Point is I feel like I'm either getting nowhere or she just likes to take things ridiculously slow. Is she just trying to give me the hint that she changed her mind?

Truth be told it's been wrecking my head and I wish she'd make it clear either way you know? Week after week, round in circles!

Thanks Boardsies!

Ickle Magoo

She gave you her number - have you phoned her to ask her on a date? That way you'll know for sure if she wants anything romantic to happen with you. I think just trying to stand close to her and chat when you happen to bump into her is probably giving the impression that you aren't very interested so she is responding in kind. Ask her out and let her know you are! Best of luck.

ChocolateRamses

Ickle Magoo may have it right, but I'd also consider that she's simply not interested? I mean you asked for her number, that's a pretty clear signal, if she's not moving then it may be that she's not interested.

jared86

thanks both of you

i decided to just chuck it out there. I asked her out for coffee and she said yes. There's the ah, closure. Oh and i did it through txt!!!

ChocolateRamses

Go team!