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  • 21-01-2010 9:33am
    #1
    CK1Champ
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 88 ✭✭


    I've been seeing a girl for the last 7weeks and we recently got together.she is out of a two year relationship that wasn't going well for a number of months and when we met it she finished it because she wanted to be with me.before we were officially a couple we were out with college and she got leglessly drunk,ended up kissing someone.I had prety much finished her with her that night.she talked to my friends and begged for my forgiveness...I could see she had realised how much of a mistake she made and forgave her.we hve met each others families and get on well with them but her ex would text her every now and again.I no he is still mad about her,she says there's nothing in it and she texts him back because she feels sorry for him with alot of trouble at home.she has told me a lot there is only one person she wants and that's me but she would mention her ex from time to
    time in conversation.I always put it down to it being her first proper bf until he asked her to go to a concert with him and she didn't see it the way I did until I let her no exactly how I felt!what do people make of it??


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  • #2
    Peggypeg
    Closed Accounts Posts: 578 ✭✭✭Peggypeg


    Hey OP,

    From the little information you've given it sounds to me like the girl doesn't have a clue what she wants. She's only out of a 2 year relationship and gets with you, was it actually finished or did she cheat with you? Then she kisses someone else and now she thinks it's ok to go to a concert with her ex. Sounds to me like she's hedging her bets and keeping you around til she figures out what she wants. As you are only with her 7 weeks I would call it quits and leave as it doesn't sound like the relationship is going to be a happy, healthy and truthful. If you do decide to give it a go, I wish you the best of luck. I would be laying down the condition that all contact with her ex stops because I know I personally wouldn't be happy knowing my bf was visiting his ex.

    Best of luck


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