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need to make a decision

  • 21-01-2010 9:20am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    right im not sure if im asking a question here or if im just getting it all off my chest but i need advice i think.
    here is the situation, im living with my girlfriend, we have been going out for over a year. we live with my cousin who owns the house and obviously pay rent to help him pay his morgage. im in college so moving out is not much of a possibility.

    the problem is the 'spark' or whatever isnt there anymore, we havnt had sex for a month, before that it was even only once or twice a month. iv started fancying someone else, maybe it started when the sex dried up so to speak, maybe not im not sure but i do know that i cant see the relationship lasting. but there is so much to think about and its driving me crazy.
    we are supposed to be goin away on a short holiday in a few weeks but im not sure if we should, maybe it would help get the 'spark' back or else it might be terrible.

    i just dont know what to do, should i be selfish and break up with her and try move out leaving her heartbroken and my cousin struggling to pay his morgage. i think i have to but i just cant bring myself to make life awkward for so many people.

    its driving me mad.i dont know if im able to do it.


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  • #2
    ManOfMystery
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,394 ✭✭✭ManOfMystery


    I would go away for the holiday and see how it goes, it's easy to get into a rut in any relationship and maybe some time away will help give you both a lease of life.

    However, if the holiday doesn't work out then you should start looking at being brutally honest with your gf and telling her how you feel. Maybe she feels similar.


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